Why does he do to me what his ex did to him?

[UnaWilde]

Originally Posted by Mialady

Nope! He flat out has told me many times he can't commit and doesn't want to date anyone and isn't looking...even though he dated me in the beginning lol. That started my confusion. Well I'm fairly young and he's not plus he's never been tied down before. When he wanted to be tied down (to his ex) she wouldn't let him. So basically this is the same situation but reversed lol. Im not dating him at the moment though, we are just friends and I'm dating someone else. It's not an official relationship yet with this new guy though.

This makes me sad reading this OP. Why can't you believe him when he says he doesn't want you?


Of course he is looking for the right one. He just doesn't want you. You're also being unfair on the new guy, he doesn't deserve all this baggage.

[Mialady]

Originally Posted by UnaWilde

This makes me sad reading this OP. Why can't you believe him when he says he doesn't want you?


Of course he is looking for the right one. He just doesn't want you. You're also being unfair on the new guy, he doesn't deserve all this baggage.

I DO believe him! Don't you get that from my responses? I never said he's totally lying and is just playing games, lol. And how on earth am I being unfair to the new guy? We have a great time and there has been no commitmet from either one of us yet. He's not getting hurt...at all. Geez lol!

[UnaWilde]

I hope I can let it go so I can get into being with the guy im with now

But you have to really let it go. It seems you are still hoping

[Mialady]

Originally Posted by Just A Guy

Kind of the same reason that you can't commit to the new guy.

Actually I can, you see I literally just met him. I don't jump into relationships after a week but I'm emotionally available.

[carnivalday]

Men will say they dont want to commit to a woman, until they meet the right woman. Then they will commit so fast your head will spin.