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Old 09-30-2015, 08:05 PM
 
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OP , either he is too good at what he does or you have low standards. Either ways you should be able to do better. If all fails let us know and we will provide you our phone numbers to choose from. Kidding.....

Good luck. And best answer is no answer. Just neglect him.
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Old 09-30-2015, 08:08 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Thanks for the responses...Just needed the validation is all...How do I tell him that his actions were rude without sounding pressed about it?
I don't think you need to. Just be busy.
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Old 09-30-2015, 08:09 PM
 
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Even before we sat up the allotted time to chat, he reached out to me on FB to befriend him, (which I did)...His actions don't make any sense to me.... Should I unfriend him as well.
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Old 09-30-2015, 08:16 PM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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OP , either he is too good at what he does or you have low standards. Either ways you should be able to do better. If all fails let us know and we will provide you our phone numbers to choose from. Kidding.....

Good luck. And best answer is no answer. Just neglect him.
^ Totally. Indifference drives men insane. (If he deserves it, that is)
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Old 09-30-2015, 08:17 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Thanks for the responses...Just needed the validation is all...How do I tell him that his actions were rude without sounding pressed about it?
Silence.
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Old 09-30-2015, 08:28 PM
 
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Even before we sat up the allotted time to chat, he reached out to me on FB to befriend him, (which I did)...His actions don't make any sense to me.... Should I unfriend him as well.
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Old 09-30-2015, 08:30 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Do nothing. Say nothing.

Don't add to any drama.
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Old 09-30-2015, 08:31 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Even before we sat up the allotted time to chat, he reached out to me on FB to befriend him, (which I did)...His actions don't make any sense to me.... Should I unfriend him as well.
I would. You aren't friends.
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Old 09-30-2015, 10:00 PM
 
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Seriously if I unfriend, will that make me look like I'm petty.

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Old 09-30-2015, 10:04 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Seriously if I unfriend, will that make look like I'm petty.
No, you don't OWE him anything.

You're allowed to have second thoughts.
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