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I am a young white skinny boy, he is a tall muscular black man. I am definitely bisexual and he is totally my type. We both work for a more conservative organization so it's a bit of an issue there trying to dance around the subject of gay. However, he is not married. No GF or mention of GF that I know of. Works at a different site than me, and always seems way too excited about it when I go there.
The signs and signals I have been getting from him are getting stronger now that we have been working together for more than a year on different projects. In all that time he has never mentioned girls. He works at a school so most of those hot young female teachers are available to him, yet he never mentions them. He is very flamboyant and super excitable. He would yell my name down the hallway at me. Then he sneaks up behind me and hugs me as we're walking. He dresses very preppy and he always laughs at my jokes and tells me that he loves me. In a joking manner.
A strange thing happened the other day as another possible gay black man and him was talking outside I walked past. The guy in question was saying how much he loves me and the other man who dressed just as preppy as my friend kept nodding his head at me. Kinda like he was signaling me out. Basically it was like that other guy was his wingman and he was basically confirming that my friend had a sexual interest in me and that I could go for it. What do you guys think about all this?
My gaydar is extremely bad and very reserved. I don't let it out much in my personal life just random hookups here and there. Never even really considered a relationship with another man before either, but would be open to it.
I think you should never use the non word "gaydar" and if you cannot make a decision about your life and a potential relationship without the opinion of random strangers on a public forum, you are not mature enough to be in a relationship.
I am a young white skinny boy, he is a tall muscular black man. I am definitely bisexual and he is totally my type. We both work for a more conservative organization so it's a bit of an issue there trying to dance around the subject of gay. However, he is not married. No GF or mention of GF that I know of. Works at a different site than me, and always seems way too excited about it when I go there.
The signs and signals I have been getting from him are getting stronger now that we have been working together for more than a year on different projects. In all that time he has never mentioned girls. He works at a school so most of those hot young female teachers are available to him, yet he never mentions them. He is very flamboyant and super excitable. He would yell my name down the hallway at me. Then he sneaks up behind me and hugs me as we're walking. He dresses very preppy and he always laughs at my jokes and tells me that he loves me. In a joking manner.
A strange thing happened the other day as another possible gay black man and him was talking outside I walked past. The guy in question was saying how much he loves me and the other man who dressed just as preppy as my friend kept nodding his head at me. Kinda like he was signaling me out. Basically it was like that other guy was his wingman and he was basically confirming that my friend had a sexual interest in me and that I could go for it. What do you guys think about all this?
My gaydar is extremely bad and very reserved. I don't let it out much in my personal life just random hookups here and there. Never even really considered a relationship with another man before either, but would be open to it.
Clearly he is interested. No straight guy sneaks up behind another guy and hugs them. Go for it. Lifes to short.
I think you should never use the non word "gaydar" and if you cannot make a decision about your life and a potential relationship without the opinion of random strangers on a public forum, you are not mature enough to be in a relationship.
I can't tell if you're more offended by my use of the word gaydar or if you have a problem with a potential gay interracial relationship. Either way, this statement is one of the most idiotic things I have ever read on any internet forum. People ask for advice about relationships all the time! That's why there is a relationship forum here. I have not been around too many gay guys in a public setting (such as work). That and never actually being in a gay relationship before had me wondering what's up with this guy at my work. Thanks for the laugh and "very helpful" advice though.
Clearly he is interested. No straight guy sneaks up behind another guy and hugs them. Go for it. Lifes to short.
That was one of the times that got me really thinking of him in this way. I was surprised and shocked at first but then after I thought about it for awhile, I just ended up thinking how sweet it was.
That was one of the times that got me really thinking of him in this way. I was surprised and shocked at first but then after I thought about it for awhile, I just ended up thinking how sweet it was.
It sounds very sweet. He's interested if his wingman is any indication.
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