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Why are u all telling me she will break up with me after this?It does not make ANY sense.Our relationship is not that bad.We have been together for 7 Mod cut: profanity years with little hiccups why would it fall apart from a silly little game.
Please try to be more respectful and less nihilistic.She tells me she will break up IF I DONT GO THROUGH WITH IT to pressure me into it.She is not gonna dump me if i do it.Stop scaring me
Why are u all telling me she will break up with me after this?It does not make ANY sense.Our relationship is not that bad.We have been together for 7 f@cking years with little hiccups why would it fall apart from a silly little game.
Please try to be more respectful and less nihilistic.She tells me she will break up IF I DONT GO THROUGH WITH IT to pressure me into it.She is not gonna dump me if i do it.Stop scaring me
Pressuring and haranguing someone into having sex with another person is a silly little game? Break up with her and never date again. Please.
I hope she dumps your azz, and hard.
Last edited by MoonBeam33; 10-24-2015 at 12:35 AM..
You call this a little hiccup? Yet it's causing you seriously mental anguish?
Is there a history or substance abuse/recreational drug abuse in this relationship by either one or both of you?
I occasionally do recreational drugs but I dont see the relevance.She doesnt even smoke regular cigs ,drinks only socially and is very self consious when it comes to her body .Like totally the opposite of me
Why are u all telling me she will break up with me after this?It does not make ANY sense.Our relationship is not that bad.We have been together for 7 f@cking years with little hiccups why would it fall apart from a silly little game.
Please try to be more respectful and less nihilistic.She tells me she will break up IF I DONT GO THROUGH WITH IT to pressure me into it.She is not gonna dump me if i do it.Stop scaring me
She may dump you. You said you had to pressure her to be with another woman. What are her views on sex? Why didn't she automatically want to do it? If it was something she was really against, then she went through with it under duress to make you happy, possibly. So she may have some serious negative feelings going on there. That's the problem with pressuring people. They may give in, but there can be a backlash after its been done. So this can lead to her feeling used and treated like a sex toy, or hooker to you. Then you turn around and back out of your end of the agreement, thus making you a liar who will just tell her whatever to get your way. You come off as seriously lacking respect for your girlfriend, and acting as if she's just around to please you without you having to do anything in return. Then you say she's self-conscious. So you probably take advantage of that to control her. probably why you're with her.
So if you don't do this, she'll probably drop you. Since she did something she didn't even want, with her body and sex life just to fulfill your boner. Now she didn't have to do it. But she finally agreed because you made a solid deal with her that things would be equal and you'd give her a show as well. Now you back out with "Syke, I got mine! Deal with it." Don't underestimate the anger + hurt that can cause.
I am sure you know there's a good chance she'll drop you, otherwise you wouldn't be here asking for advice, or needing to talk to someone if it wasn't a big issue. or saying that we're scaring you.
She may dump you. You said you had to pressure her to be with another woman. What are her views on sex? Why didn't she automatically want to do it? If it was something she was really against, then she went through with it under duress to make you happy, possibly. So she may have some serious feelings of resentment going on there. That's the problem with pressuring people. They may give in, but there can be a backlash after its been done. So if you don't do this, she'll probably drop you. Since she did something she didn't even want, with her body and sex life just to fulfill your boner. Now she didn't have to do it. But she finally agreed because you made a solid deal with her that things would be equal and you'd give her a show as well.
Now, you back out. She very well may dump you for this. And I am sure you know there's a good chance, otherwise you wouldn't be here asking for advice, or needing to talk to someone if it wasn't a big issue.
Yes I concur.I am anxious she might get hurt If I dont do it.Btw I am putting an act all these days to appease her when she gets frustrated while telling her that I dont want it to be with that particular friend.I am pretending that I will do it with some other random dude just to partially appease her when deep down I know it would be hard for me to do this with any male.
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