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So I pressured my gf to have recently sex with a girl while I was watching.She actually did it after endless debates (with one of our common friends).Problem is that in order to get her to do it I promised that I would have sex with a guy but I never thought that she would insist SO much in me going through with it.Now she really really pressuring me to have sex with one of my closest friends (who's gay and has apparently teamed up with her in this).What should I do to avoid this?I know its double standards if I dont do it but still its very difficult for me to have sex with a dude (she complained about the same when i was pressuring to have sex with a girl).Or should I just do it to shut her up?
It was a real controlling and jerk move to pressure her into any sexual act. What is wrong with you? I predict this relationship not lasting past Halloween. You are both using sex as a game of control and seeing how far you can push your significant other. It's sick and a bit sociopathic.
Agreed with the 1st answer. You 2 had a deal, and since you had to pressure her to do things with the girl, seems like she may have only been doing it for you and wasn't really interested. But now, it's time to hold up your end of the deal. Or possibly risk your gf dumping you for being selfish. She tried something you wanted. it's time to try something she wants.
And in the future, think about fantasies. Sometimes they don't always go off without a hitch. Hence why some couples know certain fantasies need to remain such. But it's done. Seeing 2 men together is something she wants. it's not all about you, and if you think it is maybe rethink dating women and stick to casual hook-ups.
Agreed with the 1st answer. You 2 had a deal, and since you had to pressure her to do things with the girl, seems like she may have only been doing it for you and wasn't really interested. But now, it's time to hold up your end of the deal. Or possibly risk your gf dumping you for being selfish. She did something you nagged her to do, least you could do is try some of her things.
And in the future, think about fantasies. Sometimes they don't always go off without a hitch. Hence why some couples know certain fantasies need to remain such. But it's done. Seeing 2 men together is something she wants. it's not all about you, and if you think it is maybe rethink dating women and stick to casual hook-ups.
The other complication is that she is asking me to have sex with a very close friend ( i know him for more than a decade).The other problem is that I know that he is sexually attracted to me,i knew that from the beggining of our relationship as he was really straightforward but it was never an issue since he was always respectful towards me.
I am arguing that I cant have sex with this particular friend but she is not listening.She's adamant i do it or game over....she seems really frustrated and it tears me up
So I pressured my gf to have recently sex with a girl while I was watching.She actually did it after endless debates (with one of our common friends).Problem is that in order to get her to do it I promised that I would have sex with a guy but I never thought that she would insist SO much in me going through with it.Now she really really pressuring me to have sex with one of my closest friends (who's gay and has apparently teamed up with her in this).What should I do to avoid this?I know its double standards if I dont do it but still its very difficult for me to have sex with a dude (she complained about the same when i was pressuring to have sex with a girl).Or should I just do it to shut her up?
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