i sent mixed signals to a guy. how do I fix this? (men, therapy)
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Doing nice things (car help) does not undo the nasty things.
Also, playing games like this - toughen up girlfriend.
If one chooses to play, one must be prepared for the fallout.
Perhaps contemplate the likelihood that he's told all his friends (male) about your games, and to avoid you.
Maybe you wont be able to get a date for the remainder of your college life, and go about wondering why.
I really shouldn't have played a game like that, and I'm sorry. I've told him I'm sorry.
he isn't the type of person to do that. i mean, he still spends most of his free time with me and has flat out told me he isn't interested in other girls. I messed up, and I know that. I'm trying to do better for my life.
I really shouldn't have played a game like that, and I'm sorry. I've told him I'm sorry.
he isn't the type of person to do that. i mean, he still spends most of his free time with me and has flat out told me he isn't interested in other girls. I messed up, and I know that. I'm trying to do better for my life.
I want to make things right. I'm a good person.
Good people don't go around playing others like that.
You can't undo what you've already done.
You can apologise and be forgiven, but the trust is gone. That relationship has been broken, it can be glued together again, but you'll always see the cracks.
Move on, leave the poor guy alone, learn your lesson. Concentrate on your studies.
Good people don't go around playing others like that.
You can't undo what you've already done.
You can apologise and be forgiven, but the trust is gone. That relationship has been broken, it can be glued together again, but you'll always see the cracks.
Move on, leave the poor guy alone, learn your lesson. Concentrate on your studies.
I know I'm a good person. We all mess up. I was afraid of getting hurt and had some ego problems. I've been working on them and I'm planning to see a therapist as well.
you really think it's that bad? I mean, he's willingly still around. I asked him before if he didn't want to see me, and he said no. He wants to start over. The past 2 weeks have been great. I haven't been messing with him at all. He generally seems happy to be around me. Now he even texts first at times and approaches me rather than the other way around.
Hard to believe this is a female poster. "High status men"? Really? That's straight up PUA language.
I thought the goal was to be with the person who was best on paper rather than who I got along with the best. This really happened. It's so sad. such a messed up story that I mostly blame myself for.
Try asking him to pay some of your bills. That should show you how much he really "likes" you!
I don't need his money. I'm not a gold digger. Anyway, he has to buy quite a few things for the dance I invited him too, and he's willing to do that. He'll probably never wear any of those items again, he's just buying it for me. that's pretty nice of him.
I thought the goal was to be with the person who was best on paper rather than who I got along with the best. This really happened. It's so sad. such a messed up story that I mostly blame myself for.
Huh? Who told you that?
Oh dear oh dear.
Look at yourself hun.
You are a baby. In college, but still have soo much to learn about life.
People's value is NOT dependant on the following, never has been.
1. education
2. post code
3. potential
You will learn that, hopefully, as you mature.
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