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Old 11-25-2015, 07:36 AM
 
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Most men I know have commitment issues. But what would you think if a woman told you she has commitment issues? I think these women have usually been burned pretty badly in the past or have kids. But what if she has commitment issues and no kids? That actually sounds like something most guys would want lol. Am I wrong?
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Old 11-25-2015, 07:42 AM
 
Location: California side of the Sierras
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Why wouldn't a woman have commitment issues? One does not need to have an attached penis to fear commitment.
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Old 11-25-2015, 07:50 AM
 
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Women would have commitment issues for the same variety of reasons men would.
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Old 11-25-2015, 07:52 AM
 
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You post a lot of strange threads about women, considering you are one.
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Old 11-25-2015, 07:56 AM
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I'm one of those women with commitment issues. No kids either.
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Old 11-25-2015, 08:26 AM
 
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Fear of missing out?
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Old 11-25-2015, 08:28 AM
 
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I'm one of those women with commitment issues. No kids either.
same.

agree with the fear of missing out... also fear of divorce, fear that i will change over time and no longer be interested in my partner, fear that my partner will change over time and no longer be interested in me, fear i will discover something about my partner that will not be compatible with me, fear of combining finances, fear of having to make life decisions over "we" instead of "me", etc.
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Old 11-25-2015, 09:16 AM
 
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For me, it is having spent more than a decade feeling stuck. It is awful to feel that way. I don't want to ever feel stuck again.

I am in a relationship, but that is the extent of the commitment I am willing to make. I'm happy, I don't feel stuck, and I don't want to mess up either of those two things.
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Old 11-25-2015, 09:34 AM
 
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You post a lot of strange threads about human beings considering you are one.
Fixed that for you

Seriously though, OP, no offense but lot of the threads you post are just basic human knowledge. You also tend to answer your own questions within the OP. Are you really that bored at work?
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Old 11-25-2015, 09:46 AM
 
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Most men I know have commitment issues. But what would you think if a woman told you she has commitment issues? I think these women have usually been burned pretty badly in the past or have kids. But what if she has commitment issues and no kids? That actually sounds like something most guys would want lol. Am I wrong?
What do you mean by "issues?" Not wanting a commitment doesn't mean there's anything negative going on. I can't see myself committing to anyone for at least another couple of years. There's too much I want to do without having to consider how someone else feels about it. Nothing wrong with that.
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