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1) You suspect he is cheating based on perceived evidence, and 2) you suspect he is cheating based on evidence you gathered surreptitiously.
So logic would tell you to TALK to him about your concerns (loss of interest, withdrawing, etc) but what do you do about the stuff you found out about secretly? That's deception, too.
I know... so I really don't know what to do... Am I screwing it up?
I know... so I really don't know what to do... Am I screwing it up?
Well, if you ask me, you screwed up when instead of talking to your husband about your concerns, your first step was to install spyware on his phone. Talk about a violation of trust.
If you feel the need to snoop and track your husband file for divorce already because even if nothing is going on you have already convicted him of cheating.
Forget the perfect holier-than-thou CDer's who preach you should have full trust and believe anything he says or just file for divorce. If your gut says he is cheating then he is likely cheating. Don't confront him yet. Gather evidence. Protect yourself.
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