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Old 11-21-2015, 07:09 PM
 
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Yes....they can be a symptom of not being able to communicate...or even outright incapibilty.....but they are not the problem. Only someone that can't understand an actual positive long-term relationship.
Well you would be surprised even small things as the dishes or not wiping the shower door Down after a shower can lead to big arguments. Stuff happens at the Least things. And you can't fool me I know that you have arguments with your spouse and I don't have to be live in your house because it is common
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Old 11-21-2015, 07:29 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Well you would be surprised even small things as the dishes or not wiping the shower door Down after a shower can lead to big arguments. Stuff happens at the Least things. And you can't fool me I know that you have arguments with your spouse and I don't have to be live in your house because it is common
Having an argument doesn't equate to having marital problems.
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Old 11-21-2015, 07:46 PM
 
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Having an argument doesn't equate to having marital problems.
Really???????
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Old 11-21-2015, 07:47 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Really???????
Yes. Really. My husband and I have arguments from time to time. We have a great marriage. You probably aren't going to agree with anyone 100% of the time. Arguments are normal. It's how you handle them that is important. There are healthy fights and unhealthy fights.
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Old 11-21-2015, 07:48 PM
 
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Really???????
Really.
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Old 11-21-2015, 07:48 PM
 
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You are right I don't have to go into anyone's home. If I want to look at drama all I have to do is turn on the TV and there is drama. Doesn't matter how mature and secure is a marriage. Couples argue and they just keep their problems behind closed doors because they are scared to go out in public and broadcast their arguments if the spouse didn't do the dishes last night or flush the toilet after use.


Okay, whatever you believe from the scripted television programs must be true, carry on as you are.


I refuse to waste more time, energy and keystrokes on someone who has zero experience when it comes to real life and marriage.
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Old 11-21-2015, 07:49 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Really???????
Really. There's no such thing as any human being on this planet that you get along with 100% of the time.
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Old 11-21-2015, 07:54 PM
 
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Yes. Really. My husband and I have arguments from time to time. We have a great marriage. You probably aren't going to agree with anyone 100% of the time. Arguments are normal. It's how you handle them that is important. There are healthy fights and unhealthy fights.
It makes me wonder if this person has ever been in an actual relationship with someone who isn't a complete pushover or if he just picks victims that won't argue.

I don't know a long term happily married couple that hasn't had a fight or two along the way. It's the ones that claim to never has disagreements that I look askance at.
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Old 11-21-2015, 07:58 PM
 
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Really. There's no such thing as any human being on this planet that you get along with 100% of the time.
I remember an old quote when a woman was asked about the success of her longtime marriage. She said that she never thought of divorce...only murder a few times.
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Old 11-21-2015, 08:27 PM
 
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I remember an old quote when a woman was asked about the success of her longtime marriage. She said that she never thought of divorce...only murder a few times.
Wow I just love how you are assuming that I don't have relationship experience . I gotta make some popcorn . This is really good drama that I get from someone who thinks that they are a pro at everything. Which they really don't know.
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