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Gasket cap01 · 11-25-2015, 11:14 PM

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Originally Posted by TabulaRasa

Why were you so worried about others, enough to start this thread?

Why is it a worry if I am asking a question? It seems as no one can't trust anyone in a relationship anymore. People are not honest anymore. The communication thing to work out a relationship is not the alpha and omega of everything. People do change over time. Sure you can get married and all is dandy but people do change over time and things happen. You can't predicts hat can happen tomorrow.

NewbieHere · 11-25-2015, 11:33 PM

I think people get married so that they can have kids. It's how it's done in my family. Two nieces got married in their early 30s and immediately have one kid after another. They have to insure somebody will pay for their SS checks when they get older. It makes perfect sense.

Gasket cap01 · 11-25-2015, 11:52 PM

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Originally Posted by NewbieHere

I think people get married so that they can have kids. It's how it's done in my family. Two nieces got married in their early 30s and immediately have one kid after another. They have to insure somebody will pay for their SS checks when they get older. It makes perfect sense.

Not necessarily can a couple have kids. Sometimes a couple can get married even younger than 30 and for some medical reason can't produce kids. Then what to do? Another thing happened a couple that I know . Her sister gave birth to a little boy 2 years ago and they have a six year old daughter . Well her sister died of cancer 2 months ago and now it is just the husband . It is terrible. So also they husband doesn't make that much money on his job. How is he supposed to raise 2 small children? Plus his wife didn't make much money. So stuff is unpredictable. Anything can happen in a marriage

rego00123 · 11-25-2015, 11:57 PM

It doesn't make sense logically to bother doing this...but what actually does when you're under the influence of feeling in love and everything seems to be going so well?

It's lost a lot of its purpose as time has gone on and we have adapted it to fit within our social climate.