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OP, I personally would send him a message, text, letter....whatever, saying everything your feeling, put it all out there. Whats the worst that could happen? Hes already with someone else, so what if it stays that way? Do you want to look back and know you took that chance or just let it go?
If he's already with someone else, then I truly want him to be happy. The age gap (12 yrs) does become apparant at times as I can still be pretty immature. He usually doesnt go for anyone under 25/26 (we started dating when I was 22) due to this very reason, our relationship just happened unexpectedly. I want him to be happy, but the thought of him with someone else makes me feel sick. I know he has plenty of options too, and it kills me to know that he may be dating someone else already while I'm still hurting a lot over this. His birthday was just a few days ago and I didnt even say anything. Last year we had a blast around the holidays as it was our first. This year is making me want to crawl under a rock and never come back out. I'm trying to look at this objectively before I decide to contact him.
Another question - is it weird to feel so strongly about someone? I almost feel like I like him TOO much. He's ALWAYS in my head now and I can't get him out. I was fine for almost 2 months after the break-up.. sure I missed him, but not to this extent. I don't know what's going on, I really don't want to like/think about someone that much. I've known him for over a year now, so the honeymoon phase should be over, shouldn't it? He's so perfect in my mind
This is just obsessive thinking, not love.
It's a way to deal with anxiety.
You can Google it. The are ways to stop doing it. You need to have your anxiety treated.
I would never choose to have a long-distance relationship unless I was already in love with that person, which was the case here.
Why did you break up with him?
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