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Did she literally say she had an "all day school thing?" Or did she give you more detail than that. I'm curious, because I could see, "Sorry, Professor So-and-So is making us come in to work on this group lab blahblahblah (whatever)" in other words an explanation with details...that could be legit.
But if she was like, "Yeah, I've got a thing. Sorry. Gonna be busy like all day."
That sounds more like a made up excuse to me. Especially when she was out with you on a Friday night before without a problem.
If you really want to try, then maybe give her one more chance. Make plans for her one more time. If she flakes for any reason, drop her.
Since she just said "I'm sorry but we'll see," I would let her text me if she were interested. I don't know that I'd text her first...because with that sort of "meh" wishy-washy answer, I think I might almost feel like I was dragging her into it and I wouldn't want her to just say "yes" because she couldn't think quickly how to say "no." I might be reading that TOTALLY wrong, BTW. Maybe she really does just anticipate being tired. Maybe after last Friday's date she WAS tired. But...this would just be my general feeling on it: Okay, I've clearly shown her I'd like to go out again, she can let me know if she'd like to.
If she does wind up texting or calling and says she wants to go out, and at that time you also want to go out, then I'd say why not, have a second date and see how it goes.
You already invited her, you don't need to do it again, IMO...she knows you're interested...so now see what happens. But in the meantime, if you want to ask someone else out...I'd do it...again JMO. What I'm saying is I wouldn't hang my star on this, personally, but I also wouldn't be worried/sad over it. You'll know how she feels about it soon enough but in the meantime you have your own life to live and you want to have fun rather than waiting on someone.
I was that girl, with the Friday and Saturday detail the same.
When I said what she said, I was being truthful. I did leave the door open a bit in case on Friday I really did feel good and wanted to go out, even if I had to pay for it the next day at school.
I don't know if I was suave enough to suggest another time.
OP I would specifically ask for another day/time/plan. Is she goes wishy washy I would say, "I'll wait to hear from you for a day/time that is good for you and we'll see if I'm free."
I hate to say it, but I would respond well to that if I like him. As in, "Oh no, I better get in gear or he will move on and I actually do like him!" Iwould also know then he doesn't put up with bull****, which is manly and hot and stuff.
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But in the meantime, if you want to ask someone else out...I'd do it...again JMO. 
What I'm saying is I wouldn't hang my star on this, personally, but I also wouldn't be worried/sad over it. You'll know how she feels about it soon enough but in the meantime you have your own life to live and you want to have fun rather than waiting on someone. 
