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Old 12-10-2015, 06:36 PM
 
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Like have you ever had an example when it got delayed and then delayed again and maybe even delayed again for whatever reason? Or maybe even delayed more than that?

I once met someone super flaky online. I remember we had agreed to meet, set a time a good deal in the future for some reason. I texted her to confirm sometime in advance then she texted me the day before to say she hadn't been getting my texts and could not make it. So we set another time. She ALMOST did the same thing again, but said she wasn't going to have plans after all (gee, thanks), so we could meet. I think I was the most insecure I'd ever been during a date on that one, mainly because it had been built up so much and I had put all my eggs in one basket.

I've learned since to keep my expectations way low and definitely not to put all your eggs in one basket (which I kind of always have known, but just seemed to really click with that one online, so ignored any common sense).
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Old 12-10-2015, 06:37 PM
 
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Never, I don't have the time or patience for nonsense.
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Old 12-10-2015, 07:32 PM
 
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Like have you ever had an example when it got delayed and then delayed again and maybe even delayed again for whatever reason? Or maybe even delayed more than that?

I once met someone super flaky online. I remember we had agreed to meet, set a time a good deal in the future for some reason. I texted her to confirm sometime in advance then she texted me the day before to say she hadn't been getting my texts and could not make it. So we set another time. She ALMOST did the same thing again, but said she wasn't going to have plans after all (gee, thanks), so we could meet. I think I was the most insecure I'd ever been during a date on that one, mainly because it had been built up so much and I had put all my eggs in one basket.

I've learned since to keep my expectations way low and definitely not to put all your eggs in one basket (which I kind of always have known, but just seemed to really click with that one online, so ignored any common sense).
No I've honestly never had a problem meeting up with girls on OLD once it makes it to that point where we've decided to meet. I tend to screen out the flaky ones. The ones that take days and days to respond to messages. The ones where the messages are good have always been very good with meeting and not delaying/ flaking.
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