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Old 02-28-2016, 10:28 AM
 
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Forget about her, she wants an orbitor.
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Old 02-28-2016, 04:33 PM
 
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Go out with her, from time to time but also date other women.

And let her know about it...don´t be available for her all the time.

And in a subtle way let her know you are not interested on being "friends".
I don't want to be available to her. I don't want to waste my time with her. If she can't make a move she ain't worth it
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Old 02-28-2016, 04:37 PM
 
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Forget about her, she wants an orbitor.
She will represent orbitors for her next clients who want to buy or sell a house. She is in the real estate business and her profession is well known for flirting with clients desperately in order to make a living
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Old 02-28-2016, 05:14 PM
 
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She will represent orbitors for her next clients who want to buy or sell a house. She is in the real estate business and her profession is well known for flirting with clients desperately in order to make a living
I'm sure that makes wives happy when shopping with their husbands.
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Old 02-28-2016, 05:26 PM
 
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This is like a carbon copy of a situation I'm in with a woman in RL...all I can say is run, run ruuuunnnn far away...and start talking to about 10 other women as fast as possible, to get her off of your mind. You're in the worst possible friend zone period, which is the one I'm in. There's different levels of the friend zone. This is the one where she flirts with you as more than friends and does the weird stuff a woman does when she likes you, but then pulls out the friend zone card right at the second you think you have her. Truly brutal stuff I assure you. I shall light a candle for you and throw back a shot in your memory. May the force be with you.
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Old 02-28-2016, 05:38 PM
 
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You started this thread two months ago and you're still hung up on the issue? I think the problem is you.
Easy for you to say until you fall for a woman like this!! I have firsthand experience with a witchy woman just like the op has encountered. They know how to keep you around and do just enough to keep you interested.


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When she footsied you, you SHOULD have looked her dead in the eye and said "prepare for ramming speed"


then stood up, and take off yer pants


best case: she undresses too and you dirty the desk
worst case: she tells you to get the hell out, and she learns a valuable lesson on leading peeps on...
Well yeah I'll agree there the one in my life never footsied me, but she does other ambiguous things. OP when she did that you should have went for a slam dunk whatever your version of that is lol.

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Old 02-28-2016, 06:28 PM
 
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Easy for you to say until you fall for a woman like this!! I have firsthand experience with a witchy woman just like the op has encountered. They know how to keep you around and do just enough to keep you interested.




Well yeah I'll agree there the one in my life never footsied me, but she does other ambiguous things. OP when she did that you should have went for a slam dunk whatever your version of that is lol.
I could imagine if I were a client for her in order to make a house sale. I asked her sometimes when I talked to her how is the real estate business going and she said she had some closings but they backed out last minute and that sales were really slow for her and she only did rentals.

It shows what kind of agent she is that she can't get a sale on a house. Maybe that is why she has such a hard time. I can imagine how her attitude is with potential clients when selling or buying a house

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Old 02-28-2016, 06:41 PM
 
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This is like a carbon copy of a situation I'm in with a woman in RL...all I can say is run, run ruuuunnnn far away...and start talking to about 10 other women as fast as possible, to get her off of your mind. You're in the worst possible friend zone period, which is the one I'm in. There's different levels of the friend zone. This is the one where she flirts with you as more than friends and does the weird stuff a woman does when she likes you, but then pulls out the friend zone card right at the second you think you have her. Truly brutal stuff I assure you. I shall light a candle for you and throw back a shot in your memory. May the force be with you.
Thanks buddy. It is the truth from what you are saying
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Old 02-29-2016, 02:02 AM
 
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Oh my god these are hilarious I was rolling last night. I need to make a Friend Zone meme I could do some amazing ones after the crap I've been through with this woman I know in RL.
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Old 02-29-2016, 05:33 AM
 
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I believe it. But why the hell want to play footsie with me if she only sees me as a friend? Usually she would rub her foot up and down my leg. What she would have done if i grabbed her foot while she did that??? oR if I tell her that either she go out and date me or cut out with the footsies? Plus what happens if someone came into her office unexpectanly? I could have been a jerk and tell one of her colleagues what she does to people in her office.
What if you would have taken her right there and then?

She signaled you to take her right there... On her desk!!!!

Fail.

Now when you get together with her friends she doesn't want them to think you guys are dating or anything serious for whatever reason.
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