Why have I never had a woman show any interest? (dating, Christian)
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I will be 22 in less than two months. Over the past two decades I have never had the good fortune of having any women show even a slight interest in a romantic relationship with me.
I have a good (and well paying) job in a growing field & some college credit (but not a degree).That being said, I make a concerted effort to continue my education every day.
I also have a good amount of savings in my bank account- and no debt. I do not have a criminal record, the most trouble I have ever been in was a speeding ticket!
Additionally, I have a great sense of humor, and enjoy a wide variety of unique interests. I am passionate about what I do, and have always pursued my goals with success.
Finally, I am also, a practicing Christian, with a strong moral compass. My faith in God, is the guiding directive in all that I do.
Can anyone here tell me what I have been doing wrong? From what I have written here, you would think that women would be happy to date a decent person, without baggage. It is frustrating to know that simply because, I am not the best looking guy in the crowd--women pass me over-without considering what I have to offer as an individual.
What more can I do?
Last edited by sotherner2346; 01-24-2016 at 06:01 PM..
I will be 22 in less than two months. Over the past two decades I have never had the good fortune of having any women show even a slight interest in a romantic relationship with me.
I have a good (and well paying) job in a growing field & some college credit (but not a degree). I also have a good amount of savings in my bank account- and no debt. I do not have a criminal record, the most trouble I have ever been in was a speeding ticket!
Additionally, I have a great sense of humor, and enjoy a wide variety of unique interests. I am passionate about what I do, and have always pursued my goals with success.
Can anyone here tell me what I have been doing wrong? From what I have written here, you would think that women would be happy to date a decent person, without baggage. It is frustrating to know that simply because, I am not the best looking guy in the crowd--women pass me over-without considering what I have to offer as an individual.
What more can I do?
Do YOU actually approach women? If so how do you do it? And what activities do you participate in where there are women there also?
I will be 22 in less than two months. Over the past two decades I have never had the good fortune of having any women show even a slight interest in a romantic relationship with me.
I have a good (and well paying) job in a growing field & some college credit (but not a degree). I also have a good amount of savings in my bank account- and no debt. I do not have a criminal record, the most trouble I have ever been in was a speeding ticket!
Additionally, I have a great sense of humor, and enjoy a wide variety of unique interests. I am passionate about what I do, and have always pursued my goals with success.
Can anyone here tell me what I have been doing wrong? From what I have written here, you would think that women would be happy to date a decent person, without baggage. It is frustrating to know that simply because, I am not the best looking guy in the crowd--women pass me over-without considering what I have to offer as an individual.
What more can I do?
Ask someone who knows you personally and has observed you in social situations with the ladies present, not a bunch of random strangers on the Internet.
You have to put yourself out there, one way or another. There's no getting around it.
I am aware that I need to do better on that. Yet, most guys have had at least 1 girl show some sort of interest by the time they are in their early 20s.
I will be 22 in less than two months. Over the past two decades I have never had the good fortune of having any women show even a slight interest in a romantic relationship with me.
I think you need go back and read that to yourself
You're 22 and there plenty to pick from, just wait until your 42 and the dating scene looks like a feral cat impound in the back of a resturant
This. And I have to say, it's a little strange to embellish two decades of women not showing interest in you, when two decades ago you were a toddler.
Granted. But it has still been quite a few years, and yet I have yet to experience being flirted with etc...
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