Do you still get crushes on people? (date, men, attracted)
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I don't. It used to feel innocent and cute and I would get nervous with butterflies. Now it's way less precious. I just want to sleep with the guy or imagine it if he's hot. Or not even that. I would just acknowledge that they're good looking and move on. I don't really feel nervous or that it's cute anymore.
Only crushes I have in past good few years have been characters on tv, or in books.
I have found some men nice-looking. But I don't see them enough, nor spend enough time with them to get to the "crush" point. It's more a thought of "He's nice-looking", and then going about my business.
I can fully be attracted to someone in reality. But for now, I live in a small town with a population under 950. So I don't see many things of interest here very often, let alone interested enough for a crush or infatuation. Most attractive man I have seen recently is my eye-doctor of 16 years, whom I saw today. I find him handsome. Hasn't seemed to have aged at all, except he's a silver fox now. His son isn't bad-looking either. But I only met him once around 2 years ago.
Last edited by HappyRain; 01-30-2016 at 12:45 PM..
Yup. I've always had crushes. I had a big crush on a guy at work for several years but I haven't seen him in a long time. Even so, I'm sure if I were to run into him, I'd still have the crush.
I have a crush on the sexy man in my company's IT department, but I'm not going to take it anywhere. It's just fun to talk and flirt innocently with him.
I have a crush on Andrew Lincoln from The Walking Dead, but I'm not going to mail him fan art or whatever, like I might have when I was a preteen long, long ago.
Now crushes are just for fun, whereas before I would want to date someone I had a crush on.
Yes, the fantasy crush. I have a raging one of those from a distance of 4,300 miles. Thank gawd for social media.
I felt sorry for Kelley Evans, he was her co host last week and she threw many side glances toward him. How does she kept her concentration on the news I mean.
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to ask them out anyway, it would only be wise to stop having crushes on folk.
