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Ive done it. Its a mistake i don't intend on making again. And then THIS happened. I met this girl and we're talking about what we are going to do for date. Movies, dinner ( nothing fancy) probably at chick-fil-A. And the night before when im going over a few details she tells me "im broke." Finally the truth comes out........... Shes working part time and doesnt make alot of money. When someone tells you they are a nurse you assume they do pretty good for themselves. SO i ask her and shes says
" Well im not ACTUALLY a nurse." she says shes going to school but i dont believe her.
Ive done it. Its a mistake i don't intend on making again. And then THIS happened. I met this girl and we're talking about what we are going to do for date. Movies, dinner ( nothing fancy) probably at chick-fil-A. And the night before when im going over a few details she tells me "im broke." Finally the truth comes out........... Shes working part time and doesnt make alot of money. When someone tells you they are a nurse you assume they do pretty good for themselves. SO i ask her and shes says
" Well im not ACTUALLY a nurse." she says shes going to school but i dont believe her.
Her lack of honesty and her apparent shame regarding her circumstances are pretty big issues. Working part time and being on a path to do better, not so much.
See thread recently about dating someone making Minimum wage... along the same lines.
It depends on why and what is their future plans.
However..... in this case, she lied about it. That is a problem that extends beyond financial. As it is, you don't believe her when she says she is going to nursing school.... so her lie is already causing problems for you.
If the purpose of dating is to eventually find or form a partnership, then avoid those less productive than yourself due to the severe long term negative consequences.
If the purpose of dating is to eventually find or form a partnership, then avoid those less productive than yourself due to the severe long term negative consequences.
thats my big issue later she'll be a weight on my shoulders i don't want to deal with
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she says shes going to school but i dont believe her.
