She's not ready for a relationship (dating, married, love, divorce)
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She said she likes me, but that she's not ready to be in a serious relationship and would rather just date for fun right now. She just got out of a divorce over a year ago and was married for over 10 years in a "loveless" marriage.
I was married and divorce as well and was in her situation where I wasn't that serious. However, after a year of dating, I'm tired of it and want to settle down with just one partner. How can I convince her that I'm the one and that she'll eventually realize it after her "fun" in dating? I'm not sure how long she'll take or if I'm even willing to wait for her. Anyone gone through something similar?
She said she likes me, but that she's not ready to be in a serious relationship and would rather just date for fun right now. She just got out of a divorce over a year ago and was married for over 10 years in a "loveless" marriage.
I was married and divorce as well and was in her situation where I wasn't that serious. However, after a year of dating, I'm tired of it and want to settle down with just one partner. How can I convince her that I'm the one and that she'll eventually realize it after her "fun" in dating? I'm not sure how long she'll take or if I'm even willing to wait for her. Anyone gone through something similar?
This is the key sentence as to 'why' shes not into you enough to roll in the mud again.
It doesn't matter that you want to be with her, and you are ready to settle down and you think she should change her mind. Listen to what she said and more important--believe it.
Respect her wishes. I think she is wise not to be in a serious relationship one year after a divorce. Surprised ppl think after 10 years people are gung ho to deeply commit again.
Continue to date her causally, it might eventually grow into a relationship. Meanwhile, date others. DO NOT hone in on her only and "wait". You will regret it.
note: if dating but not being seriously involved is hurtful to you then end it completely.
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