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Old 02-18-2016, 09:47 AM
 
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Hello, friends. First I want to thank you all for helping and support me in all my previous posts, I've been through a lot in my relationship (//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...lf-esteem.html, //www.city-data.com/forum/relat...ions-male.html, //www.city-data.com/forum/relat...d-had-sex.html, //www.city-data.com/forum/relat...ebook-guy.html, //www.city-data.com/forum/relat...-her-life.html, etc). I'm sorry for posting too many threads, sorry guys! I realize my situation but what is happening since last week is getting me very upset and hopeless about my relationship. Now i got another problem with deal, my girlfriend doesnt want to have sex because she says she doesn't feel pleasure anymore. Months ago we had a fight because she wanted to have sex without a condom and I didn't (she's on birth control) because i don't want to have children right now and since them she says I don't trust her, that I think she's trying get pregnant on purpose to trat me but that's not true, i never said that! Anyway she doesn't want to have sex and doesn't feel pleasure because of this problem we had. I'm done, don't know what to do! When I remember all these problems between us, like i said in my previous threads, and now this problem in our sex life... I get so discouraged and down to keep dating her. I love her but i don't think i'm strong enough to end the relationship neither to continue like this!
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Old 02-18-2016, 09:48 AM
 
Location: Arvada, CO
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pull out method.

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Old 02-18-2016, 09:52 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Hello, friends. First I want to thank you all for helping and support me in all my previous posts, I've been through a lot in my relationship (//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...lf-esteem.html, //www.city-data.com/forum/relat...ions-male.html, //www.city-data.com/forum/relat...d-had-sex.html, //www.city-data.com/forum/relat...ebook-guy.html, //www.city-data.com/forum/relat...-her-life.html, etc). I'm sorry for posting too many threads, sorry guys! I realize my situation but what is happening since last week is getting me very upset and hopeless about my relationship. Now i got another problem with deal, my girlfriend doesnt want to have sex because she says she doesn't feel pleasure anymore. Months ago we had a fight because she wanted to have sex without a condom and I didn't (she's on birth control) because i don't want to have children right now and since them she says I don't trust her, that I think she's trying get pregnant on purpose to trat me but that's not true, i never said that! Anyway she doesn't want to have sex and doesn't feel pleasure because of this problem we had. I'm done, don't know what to do! When I remember all these problems between us, like i said in my previous threads, and now this problem in our sex life... I get so discouraged and down to keep dating her. I love her but i don't think i'm strong enough to end the relationship neither to continue like this!
If she's on birth control what's the problem?.
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Old 02-18-2016, 09:52 AM
 
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Too much drama, I think you need to move on. When you are with the right person none of the other stuff matters. If you are having these issue with someone you are dating less than a year, imagine how it will be in 5 years.
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Old 02-18-2016, 11:01 AM
 
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pull out method.

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I don't think it's a good idea LOL, but it happened a few times!
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If she's on birth control what's the problem?.
Just because she's on birth control doesn't mean I should stop using condom!
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Too much drama, I think you need to move on. When you are with the right person none of the other stuff matters. If you are having these issue with someone you are dating less than a year, imagine how it will be in 5 years.
Ow that's true!
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Old 02-18-2016, 11:04 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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I don't think it's a good idea LOL, but it happened a few times!

Just because she's on birth control doesn't mean I should stop using condom!

Ow that's true!
Yes well i know birth control is not 100% protection but neither is a condom mate, each to their own of course but along with the other problems you 2 have had yes you should end it.
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Old 02-18-2016, 11:04 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Yes, you need to break up.

Tell her that you want to stop seeing her because the relationship is CAUSING you stress.

It doesn't have to be this hard.
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Old 02-18-2016, 11:06 AM
 
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Yes, you should finally end things with her. You are both dysfunctional.

Fix yourself. Then you will attract someone who is not broken.
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Old 02-18-2016, 11:09 AM
 
Location: Huntington
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Default Move on!

If she doesn't want to have sex with you, that's a sign she's getting it elsewhere, I certainly wouldn't waste my time, move on with your life, find someone else, date other people, make yourself happy.
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Old 02-18-2016, 11:13 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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OHHHH the drama!

Move on! Life is too short.
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