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Old 02-21-2016, 09:49 PM
 
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So I have been talking with this girl for the last month. She is in one of my classes, and we went to the same high school but I did not know her then. I finally got her number last week, and I asked her to come out with me. A bit of backstory, I go to a bar school where having a fake is essential, but she does not have one. So going out isn’t something she does everyday, but she agreed to come out with me to a party. BUT SHE BROUGHT HER FRIEND!! We hung out the whole time, I bought them both shots and got them beers, and overall we had a really great time. But the friend never left her side. When we got back, I made sure they made it to their rooms and she hugged me and said she had a really great time. Is she interested and only brought the friend so she could get a second opinion of me? Or is she not interested and brought the friend so nothing would happen? I have no idea what to think right now.

Im 19
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Old 02-21-2016, 10:01 PM
 
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Old 02-22-2016, 05:20 AM
 
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So I have been talking with this girl for the last month. She is in one of my classes, and we went to the same high school but I did not know her then. I finally got her number last week, and I asked her to come out with me. A bit of backstory, I go to a bar school where having a fake is essential, but she does not have one. So going out isn’t something she does everyday, but she agreed to come out with me to a party. BUT SHE BROUGHT HER FRIEND!! We hung out the whole time, I bought them both shots and got them beers, and overall we had a really great time. But the friend never left her side. When we got back, I made sure they made it to their rooms and she hugged me and said she had a really great time. Is she interested and only brought the friend so she could get a second opinion of me? Or is she not interested and brought the friend so nothing would happen? I have no idea what to think right now.

Im 19
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city-data has a relationship forum.
Yes, there is a relationship forum.

She brought the friend because she was nervous and/or unsure of you and what type of person you were. I remember my friend did that once on a first date. She ended up marrying the guy.

Next time you talk to her, break the ice by saying, with humor, "so, what did your friend think of me?"
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Old 02-22-2016, 05:50 AM
 
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If it's first time, then she might be nervous, which might be normal.
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Old 02-22-2016, 05:52 AM
 
Location: NJ
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Given your ages I guess this is ok. But really, everyone is unsure of someone on a first date and that's why you always meet in a public place. Maybe she is shy or doesn't go out much.
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Old 02-22-2016, 07:58 AM
 
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I think you should talk to her instead of us. That'll be a lot more helpful to you than a bunch of internet randos.
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Old 02-22-2016, 08:26 AM
 
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So I have been talking with this girl for the last month. She is in one of my classes, and we went to the same high school but I did not know her then. I finally got her number last week, and I asked her to come out with me. A bit of backstory, I go to a bar school where having a fake is essential, but she does not have one. So going out isn’t something she does everyday, but she agreed to come out with me to a party. BUT SHE BROUGHT HER FRIEND!! We hung out the whole time, I bought them both shots and got them beers, and overall we had a really great time. But the friend never left her side. When we got back, I made sure they made it to their rooms and she hugged me and said she had a really great time. Is she interested and only brought the friend so she could get a second opinion of me? Or is she not interested and brought the friend so nothing would happen? I have no idea what to think right now.

Im 19
Was the friend hot ?

i made a new year resolution to make 2 chicks at the same time a regular occurrence

When I was around that age, I had 2 Annas, the were best friends, same height cup size... one blond one brunet. I kinda liked em together. Felt very incomplete when one of them was not there. Strange. huh ?
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Old 02-22-2016, 08:47 AM
 
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What is a bar school? Are you paying to learn how to be a bartender, instead of just working at a bar?
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Old 02-22-2016, 08:54 AM
 
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If she was from NJ run for the hills kid
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Old 02-22-2016, 09:33 AM
 
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So I have been talking with this girl for the last month. She is in one of my classes, and we went to the same high school but I did not know her then. I finally got her number last week, and I asked her to come out with me. A bit of backstory, I go to a bar school where having a fake is essential, but she does not have one. So going out isn’t something she does everyday, but she agreed to come out with me to a party. BUT SHE BROUGHT HER FRIEND!! We hung out the whole time, I bought them both shots and got them beers, and overall we had a really great time. But the friend never left her side. When we got back, I made sure they made it to their rooms and she hugged me and said she had a really great time. Is she interested and only brought the friend so she could get a second opinion of me? Or is she not interested and brought the friend so nothing would happen? I have no idea what to think right now.

Im 19
Maybe she is one of those polyamorous tumblr people? BTW it isn't strange to bring a friend to check to see if the "goods are odd". Just make sure to get on the friend's good side and as an added perk, she can be another girlfriend option. Woot.

Good luck passing the bar exam.
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