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Old 02-23-2016, 08:06 PM
 
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After my boyfriend and I we're on the phone for 40 minutes arguing and making up, he texted me "I <3 you, but you exhaust me." To which I guess I proved his point because I got upset but who says that after a fight? I just feel like sometimes he's so insensitive. Especially since on the phone I told him how important good, constructive verbal communication is. Was I talking to a wall? Sometimes I just think he doesn't love me. Should we breakup? I want to not talk for a week and take a break.
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Old 02-23-2016, 08:10 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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No. I guess, he got just tired after arguing with you for 40 minutes. Can't blame him...
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Old 02-23-2016, 08:14 PM
 
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I would be exhausted after arguing on the phone for 40 minutes.
Just because he expresses an honest thought with you doesn't mean that he doesn't love you. I think you are being unreasonable. Sometimes you have to agree to disagree. Chill.
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Old 02-23-2016, 08:16 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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40 minutes on the phone, and most of it was arguing??



Is this the guy who freaks out if you're not moaning and screaming affirmations during sex?
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Old 02-23-2016, 08:18 PM
 
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After my boyfriend and I we're on the phone for 40 minutes arguing and making up, he texted me "I <3 you, but you exhaust me." To which I guess I proved his point because I got upset but who says that after a fight? I just feel like sometimes he's so insensitive. Especially since on the phone I told him how important good, constructive verbal communication is. Was I talking to a wall? Sometimes I just think he doesn't love me. Should we breakup? I want to not talk for a week and take a break.
I would have hung up the phone and turned it off after 5 minutes, then when I turned it back on I would have blocked you.
Just reading about it made me tired, argueing is not *good constructive verbal communication*.
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Old 02-23-2016, 08:19 PM
 
Location: Pa
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40 minutes on the phone, and most of it was arguing??



Is this the guy who freaks out if you're not moaning and screaming affirmations during sex?
Hahaha!
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Old 02-23-2016, 08:20 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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10 mins of arguing would exhaust me. Your 40 min call was 35mins too long, and I bet... it got you nowhere, right?
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Old 02-23-2016, 08:20 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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No. I guess, he got just tired after arguing with you for 40 minutes. Can't blame him...
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40 minutes on the phone, and most of it was arguing??



Is this the guy who freaks out if you're not moaning and screaming affirmations during sex?
Both of these!!!

Plus with your thread about him pulling out ( bad sex ) OP yes I'd at the least have a break to see where the water lies.
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Old 02-23-2016, 08:21 PM
 
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40 minutes on the phone, and most of it was arguing??



Is this the guy who freaks out if you're not moaning and screaming affirmations during sex?
We weren't arguing like raising our voices. We were just talking about an issue.
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Old 02-23-2016, 08:22 PM
 
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Both of these!!!

Plus with your thread about him pulling out ( bad sex ) OP yes I'd at the least have a break to see where the water lies.
The pulling out was the first time he did that, but I'm thinking a break would be good.
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