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Yeah, I never ever see it. I did have a date with a 32 yo that went well (I'm 44), but man, the gap is just too big I think. But I never contact these women, they're younger than my preference, but most women that seem to reach out to me are mid 30s. I don't get it. Where are the awesome 40 somethings?
The last time I actually dated an 18 year old was when I was 32. Shockingly, it didn't last. (I know!) I'm currently seeing a 24 year old, but it seems that that +/- 10 years seems to be an unofficial barrier for most, so it's unlikely that I'd be dating anybody younger than that unless they specifically sought out older men.
Again, if your wife stopped having sex with you the minute you said "I do," I feel bad for you, and suggest that you see a marriage counselor.
So if someone speaks against poverty does it make them poor? If someone supports LGTB does it make them homosexuals? Others have agreed or disagreed without the need of attacking someone’s relationship. Perhaps I hit a nerve and reminded you of your sexless relationship?
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Originally Posted by JasperJade
A woman's sexual prime has ZERO to do with what a man thinks
So if someone speaks against poverty does it make them poor? If someone supports LGTB does it make them homosexuals? Others have agreed or disagreed without the need of attacking someone’s relationship. Perhaps I hit a nerve and reminded you of your sexless relationship?
Logic people. There are topics people simply talk about that they don't support how its done. Its an opinion. As simple as that. I don't like dating American girls but I have dated them. Does it mean I am with an American woman? Nope. Would be like someone telling me I am upset because I am involved with an American girl. When all you get upset when we talk about aging, being past your prime, sexless marriage, etc. then I am thinking I hit a nerve while other female posters take it easy and debate without the need of personal insults. That might say something about you guys. See, I am using the same logic.
Logic people. There are topics people simply talk about that they don't support how its done. Its an opinion. As simple as that. I don't like dating American girls but I have dated them. Does it mean I am with an American woman? Nope. Would be like someone telling me I am upset because I am involved with an American girl. When all you get upset when we talk about aging, being past your prime, sexless marriage, etc. then I am thinking I hit a nerve while other female posters take it easy and debate without the need of personal insults. That might say something about you guys. See, I am using the same logic.
Yes, there's logic, and a place for logic.
And then there's getting to know a few things about a person by reading many of his/her posts.
I'm not trying to go OT here so I'll leave it at that...I just felt it needed to be said, is all. Hope you wind up happy, onihC.
And then there's getting to know a few things about a person by reading many of his/her posts.
Heck, I would talk about these things way before I was in a relationship anyway. Its like someone talking about how X type of person is not her cup of tea but looks for someone just like that. Just doesn't make sense. That's why I am not with an American woman. Not because they are bad or whatever but simply because culturally I prefer a different kind of relationship. When we talk about aging, women not being in their prime anymore, sexless relationships, etc. Women have reacted the same in a relationship or without one.
I have known women above 40 with a body to put into shame women around 20. So I think there is no standard for sexual prime.
It all depends.
If you haven't seen those same women at 35, 30, or whenever, then you wouldn't know.
There's tons of super hot 40+ women out there. But "prime" implies when they were at their MOST attractive. The question wasn't "can women over 40 be hot?" Of course they can, and are. Not being in one's prime doesn't automatically equate to "unattractive".
If you haven't seen those same women at 35, 30, or whenever, then you wouldn't know.
There's tons of super hot 40+ women out there. But "prime" implies when they were at their MOST attractive. The question wasn't "can women over 40 be hot?" Of course they can, and are. Not being in one's prime doesn't automatically equate to "unattractive".
The OP question was about women's sexual prime, which has nothing at all to do with whether (or how much) men find them attractive.
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