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I did use to view it as something to enjoy and grow from together. But then I found myself to be the only one involved in any growing and participating in the relationships. So I am trying a new tactic to encourage commitment.
And if you don't mind me asking, how is this new tactic working out for you?
I never actually answered the question. It's impossible to answer for anyone else so I'll just speak for myself.
TMI, the sensitive should look away... You have been warned, I'm serious about that. So here it is:
I thought I was randy in my 20s but right now, at 48, is the horniest I've ever been in my life. Just can't keep my mind off of it.
Husband is reaping the benefits. I use that poor boy like he's a draft horse some days. I'm worried, am considering hooking him up to a glucose/hydration drip as preventative.
No idea what it is. I suppose it could be partly hormonal. But I think it's largely mental...I mean if I had to just guess. I no longer care how I appear in bed, I don't care about laughable ecstasy faces, if I'm moving funny, I don't care about waiting and appearing feminine rather than grabbing for what I want and how and in what order. Just...don't care.
I think that attitude has made sex like nine bajillion times better for me and when it feels and is better...well, you just want more of it.
It's selfish...and I try to pity my husband for that fact...I do try...
The thing is, if I had come to this overall conclusion earlier...or later...would that have been my sexual "prime"? Again, that means it's not necessarily age-related, or at least not to a specific age, but just dropping the whole "What's right and what's wrong?" thing in bed. I might have come to that conclusion at 30 instead of 48 had circumstances been different. Or I might not be there at all now at 48 and hit my stride at 60 instead. Or never. Or maybe something devastating had happened to me physically or emotionally at a certain age and cut me off from enjoying ever again and so in retrospect I'd have had to say my sexual prime was 18 or 22 or whatever. This is really just an impossible question to answer as a general thing, IMO.
See I was already like that in my 20's. I am very wild and freaky. So now I have been there and done it all. I want the rest of the package like the husband. Not just the sex.
If you want someone to fix your car on demand, AAA might be a good place to start.
Seriously, do you want a partner, or someone to be at your beck and call when you are in distress?
I want a partner in life to be by my side through challenges. As it is now I have to do everything. I had surgery a few weeks ago and declined being put under so I could drive myself home. I want a husband that wants to hold my hand and be by my side.
I never actually answered the question. It's impossible to answer for anyone else so I'll just speak for myself.
TMI, the sensitive should look away... You have been warned, I'm serious about that. So here it is:
I thought I was randy in my 20s but right now, at 48, is the horniest I've ever been in my life. Just can't keep my mind off of it.
Husband is reaping the benefits. I use that poor boy like he's a draft horse some days. I'm worried, am considering hooking him up to a glucose/hydration drip as preventative.
No idea what it is. I suppose it could be partly hormonal. But I think it's largely mental...I mean if I had to just guess. I no longer care how I appear in bed, I don't care about laughable ecstasy faces, if I'm moving funny, I don't care about waiting and appearing feminine rather than grabbing for what I want and how and in what order. Just...don't care.
I think that attitude has made sex like nine bajillion times better for me and when it feels and is better...well, you just want more of it.
It's selfish...and I try to pity my husband for that fact...I do try...
The thing is, if I had come to this overall conclusion earlier...or later...would that have been my sexual "prime"? Again, that means it's not necessarily age-related, or at least not to a specific age, but just dropping the whole "What's right and what's wrong?" thing in bed. I might have come to that conclusion at 30 instead of 48 had circumstances been different. Or I might not be there at all now at 48 and hit my stride at 60 instead. Or never. Or maybe something devastating had happened to me physically or emotionally at a certain age and cut me off from enjoying ever again and so in retrospect I'd have had to say my sexual prime was 18 or 22 or whatever. This is really just an impossible question to answer as a general thing, IMO.
Your husband sounds like one lucky guy. I seriously doubt you have reason to pity him. Most guys should be so lucky to have that kind of pity! LOL
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You have been warned, I'm serious about that. So here it is:
