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Started hanging out with a girl then she started acting like we were a couple by cuddling and sweet texting me. We were also sleeping together to
I had interest in her and said something about a relationship and she said "i dont want that right now"
So i though ok then i'm just gonna treat her like a piece of meat. I'm not gonna be a "go to person" when she wants to cuddle and such
I stopped texted her first, when she tried to cuddle i wouldnt even attempt to, didn't take her out to eat or anything
Suddenly i started to notice she would keep asking "whats wrong?" "are you mad at me"
One night she asked if she could come over and I told her I had a date so no. She said "you are dating other girls?" i said "well yea, I'm single"
She said "wow" and I just ignored her. I wasn't doing ANYTHING WRONG
A few days later she was apologizing about syaing to to us in a relationship and she really did like me but wasn't sure what she wanted. She would keep asking what i was doing and who i was with and if i was interested in anyone
why does this happen? why is it if you pill away they start to freak out and suddenly question everything you do?
Started hanging out with a girl then she started acting like we were a couple by cuddling and sweet texting me. We were also sleeping together to
I had interest in her and said something about a relationship and she said "i dont want that right now"
So i though ok then i'm just gonna treat her like a piece of meat. I'm not gonna be a "go to person" when she wants to cuddle and such
I stopped texted her first, when she tried to cuddle i wouldnt even attempt to, didn't take her out to eat or anything
Suddenly i started to notice she would keep asking "whats wrong?" "are you mad at me"
One night she asked if she could come over and I told her I had a date so no. She said "you are dating other girls?" i said "well yea, I'm single"
She said "wow" and I just ignored her. I wasn't doing ANYTHING WRONG
A few days later she was apologizing about syaing to to us in a relationship and she really did like me but wasn't sure what she wanted. She would keep asking what i was doing and who i was with and if i was interested in anyone
why does this happen? why is it if you pill away they start to freak out and suddenly question everything you do?
You answered your own question. She thought it was something more than it was.
Just tell her the truth - you were interested in a relationship but since she's not, you'll continue to look elsewhere and since all she wants is a hook-up then you're good with that in the meantime.
She was probably seeing at least one other guy too, or at least had interest in one. You seeing someone else is competition in her eyes--your coldness towards her was a surprise, too. She appears to have expected you to be on standby, and the fact that you kept it moving and honestly told her so was like a sharp slap. She'll say and do whatever she can to be '#1' in your eyes--how real it is and how much of it is ego stroking for her remains to be seen.
Personally I'd waste no time with a woman who couldn't be bothered to show true interest until she realized she'd lost mine.
Started hanging out with a girl then she started acting like we were a couple by cuddling and sweet texting me. We were also sleeping together to
I had interest in her and said something about a relationship and she said "i dont want that right now"
So i though ok then i'm just gonna treat her like a piece of meat. I'm not gonna be a "go to person" when she wants to cuddle and such
I stopped texted her first, when she tried to cuddle i wouldnt even attempt to, didn't take her out to eat or anything
Suddenly i started to notice she would keep asking "whats wrong?" "are you mad at me"
One night she asked if she could come over and I told her I had a date so no. She said "you are dating other girls?" i said "well yea, I'm single"
She said "wow" and I just ignored her. I wasn't doing ANYTHING WRONG
A few days later she was apologizing about syaing to to us in a relationship and she really did like me but wasn't sure what she wanted. She would keep asking what i was doing and who i was with and if i was interested in anyone
why does this happen? why is it if you pill away they start to freak out and suddenly question everything you do?
Lol. This happened to a straight male friend of mine recently. He's almost 40 and has a history of failed relationships with women. Recently he met a woman who said and did all the right things… at first.
They had sex, and within days she was blowing up his phone, asking him why he "liked" other women's photos on social media, etc. He wasted no time dumping her and blocking her on social media.
The problem is there aren't enough available men to go around. The demand for men exceeds the supply. So women are getting increasingly desperate.
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