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So I met a guy online and we hung out for a couple of times. It turned out he was only staying my country for vacation. While we hung out, I guessed he's into me coz he took the initiative to kiss me. He even introduced one of his best friend to me when we hung out. Everything was good. When he left, we decided to keep contact and he said he would Skype me.
So after that, in those 7 months, when we had time we would Skype for at least 2 hours. One day when we Skype, I mentioned I had holidays and could visit him and his country, he said he wanted me to stay at his home and wanted me to have a dinner with his family if I was willing to do that. I said I could and I thought he wanted to be serious with me coz he was already 27 years old and we did get along.
But one day when I texted him when he would have day off again, he just read them and didn't respond to me but we did chat yesterday night. I thought he would reply to me after several days coz he used to respond to me after a week. But it's been 18 days now and he didn't respond to me. During those 18 days, I texted him again and it's like he just vanished. Not read my msgs( I think) and it's like he didn't use his phone. I tried to text him on Skype and I think he read it coz he was online but after that, he was offline and he didn't use Skype again. The latest time he used Skype was 4 days ago and he didn't read the msgs I sent him again.
To be honest, I am very confused now and I have no idea why he has been ghosting me. He doesn't seem like a guy who would ghost me after 7 months and it just makes me curious why on earth he would want me to see his family if he doesn't like me? He used to send me videos of his nephew, telling my name to his nephew and the little kid would say my name, asking me how I was doing. He would send me pics of himself while he had day offs.
Now, he's just gone. I am frustrated about it and know I should move on. But thing is I can't. It's hard to move on when I don't know the reason. I am thinking if I should contact his friend on Facebook, asking him if he is alright or not. If he is fine, replying to friends everyday, I feel like at least I know he actually read my texts, just doesn't wanna respond to me. Right now, I am struggling if I should look for that friend he introduced to me or I should just let it go. Please help me to think if I should do it. Ghosting is really horrible and I have never been ghosted. Guys, plz tell me if I should look for his friends and ask him what happened or just move o
I would find his friend and ask if he is alright. If he is, then you will know that he is no longer interested, and you can go from there.
I would not continue contact with his friend, though. You will have to let the whole thing go.
I feel like he actually read all my msgs now coz he somehow online in whatsapp but then he just got offline. Maybe I should just move on now I guess. He just suddenly doesn't interested in me anymore.
I feel like he actually read all my msgs now coz he somehow online in whatsapp but then he just got offline. Maybe I should just move on now I guess. He just suddenly doesn't interested in me anymore.
It hurts coz we had been keeping close for 7 months...and just left without telling me? But I still wanna reach out to him. Am I crazy? I feel like I am an idiot now
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