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Old 05-31-2019, 08:20 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Old 05-31-2019, 08:27 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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Me too must be a friday....oh wait, thats just everyday
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Old 05-31-2019, 08:28 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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1. personality
2. intelligence
3. good in bed
4. looks
5. money
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Old 05-31-2019, 09:23 AM
 
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There are interesting differences when it comes to preferences of men vs women. And they are what you would expect, more or less, as per stereotypes

All of this is making me wonder though, what exactly is "good in bed"? I am probably mediocre, at best
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Old 05-31-2019, 09:37 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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There are interesting differences when it comes to preferences of men vs women. And they are what you would expect, more or less, as per stereotypes

All of this is making me wonder though, what exactly is "good in bed"? I am probably mediocre, at best
Someone who isn't offended when i direct them. Every woman is different and has her own favorite erogenous zones. If she doesn't know herself, she needs to figure herself out first and then teach you.
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Old 05-31-2019, 11:11 AM
 
Location: Moreno Valley, Ca
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I'm a bit insane in that these traits change in order of importance for me at different times.

Money is always the least important.
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Old 05-31-2019, 11:14 AM
 
Location: Boulder, CO
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Old 05-31-2019, 11:51 AM
 
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Looks * money * personality * intelligence * good in bed

Be truthful. We won't be judging you.
The most important one is none of those IMHO.

It's long term compatibility.

Compatibility in terms of life goals, background, sense of humor, religion, how you treat friends and family, degree of dependability, degree of altruism, degree of work ethnic, degree of honesty, etc...

I mean ... some of these lists of looks and personality...

I mean if people think the first well spoken, good looking person with a bag of jokes, and a Masters degree in Public Policy is a great catch just because of those things, it makes me think that person has never dated anybody seriously.

Or maybe it's just me...
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Old 05-31-2019, 11:34 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Default no order

I don't think it works in "AN ORDER". It is a group of things that all come together at once: non-offensive smell, attractive to me, honest, kind, average self esteem, fun, interesting, not overly emotionally complicated or emotionally messy, intelligent, not too loud, compatible.
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Old 05-31-2019, 11:35 PM
 
Location: Texas
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There are interesting differences when it comes to preferences of men vs women. And they are what you would expect, more or less, as per stereotypes

All of this is making me wonder though, what exactly is "good in bed"? I am probably mediocre, at best
"Good in bed" is very subjective.

it is not about performance, it is not a fake art, but matching well with each other by some good luck and attraction.
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