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There are interesting differences when it comes to preferences of men vs women. And they are what you would expect, more or less, as per stereotypes
All of this is making me wonder though, what exactly is "good in bed"? I am probably mediocre, at best
Someone who isn't offended when i direct them. Every woman is different and has her own favorite erogenous zones. If she doesn't know herself, she needs to figure herself out first and then teach you.
Looks * money * personality * intelligence * good in bed
Be truthful. We won't be judging you.
The most important one is none of those IMHO.
It's long term compatibility.
Compatibility in terms of life goals, background, sense of humor, religion, how you treat friends and family, degree of dependability, degree of altruism, degree of work ethnic, degree of honesty, etc...
I mean ... some of these lists of looks and personality...
I mean if people think the first well spoken, good looking person with a bag of jokes, and a Masters degree in Public Policy is a great catch just because of those things, it makes me think that person has never dated anybody seriously.
I don't think it works in "AN ORDER". It is a group of things that all come together at once: non-offensive smell, attractive to me, honest, kind, average self esteem, fun, interesting, not overly emotionally complicated or emotionally messy, intelligent, not too loud, compatible.
There are interesting differences when it comes to preferences of men vs women. And they are what you would expect, more or less, as per stereotypes
All of this is making me wonder though, what exactly is "good in bed"? I am probably mediocre, at best
"Good in bed" is very subjective.
it is not about performance, it is not a fake art, but matching well with each other by some good luck and attraction.
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