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You need to make your intentions clear. She may prefer to date men who sexually want her and aren't afraid to show it, instead of hanging out with a platonic buddy. For young attractive girls, it's a waste of time. Think about it.
B]I kept the conversation to a great minimum because I did not want to kill the attraction.
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When we got back from Florida, I called her and took her out on a date. We went out on a Friday night to dinner, get dessert, and back to my house for drinks and a movie. I never did make a physical move to kiss her (or try to have sex) because I did not want her to think I wanted her for sex. Instead, I put my arm around her and watched the movie. Dropped her off and she told me again she had a great time. She showed high level of attraction.
The next day I called her, she did not answer. I then texted her a few days later and said "Hey haven't heard from you in a while, wanted to know a day you were free to go out." She replied "sorry I forgot to call back lol but Ill let you know very soon!" I said okay. Its been about a week and I still have not heard from her. My she views my snapchat stories, so I know she sees some of the things I have been doing.
Basically I was wondering if you were in my position, would you walk away and continue to wait and see if she contacts me or text/call her again? I do not want to come off as needy, but I really would like to see her again. Clearly she has been on my mind.
Also, if she did lose interest, why do you think this is? Especially after she told me she had a great time?
One, if she has the hots for you, NOTHING is killing ANY attraction. Nor would she "forget" to call in that case.
You and a bunch of other guys are probably sharing interest in her via Instagram. Oh well. Anyway, I went on a date with gal a few years ago. Date went well, and we exchanged all the usual pleasantries via text and whatnot, but her OLD profile later mentioned not being thrilled with dating guys who don't practice personal hygiene. That was my hint, because I showered after getting a haircut the morning of our date. No big deal.
Don't you have something more positive in your life which you can focus on instead of consuming yourself with worry about another person's intentions ?
Especially a person you don't even know in the slightest
There is always that fine line we walk where if you make a move you are too aggressive but if you don't make it you're forgotten.
In this case you should have kissed her. However the fine line is not to hump her leg. Unless she is ok with it. Lol!
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No big deal.
