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Okay everyone 25 year old who took 2 years to fix his life finally. Dealt with depression and anxiety issues but I felt ready to make a new life or start a new habit. I told myself I would go on more dates. I'm new to okcupid and made an account. Got a date for last Friday my anxiety was kicking didn't sleep the night before but I told myself **** go for it the more dates you go this negative mindset will subside. Okay met the girl I found her attractive some would say she was a 6/10 but her personality and her intelligence was a turn on. We made out first the first date. The chick was not looking for anything serious she was willing for fwb I'm like yes this is what I need. Few days later I start asking her about her past for any health issues I should be aware of. I found out that she hooked up with 8 guys from that app I believe she had it for a year. January she had sex with a guy with no condom and 3' weeks prior for meeting her she was with someone else had sex but protection but she did Mod cut.. Now I'm freaking out if I caught anything because of that.
Apart of me really wanted to sleep with her honestly I did but after finding all this out and freaking out during our text I missed my chance that every guy dreamed up. I feel ashamed I didn't do anything. I'm just lost confused scared
Last edited by PJSaturn; 04-06-2016 at 09:43 PM..
Reason: Not PG-13.
You're not too clear whether you slept with her or not. If you did, you should get checked. If you didn't, do not sleep with her. STD's are a life changer. I'm not speaking from direct experience, but I've had close calls and I regret being so naive and foolish to put myself in a life threatening situation like that.
What exactly was your decision? It's hard to tell from your post.
I mean, you don't even know what she's done that she DIDN'T tell you about. I would go to the doc, get checked out, brush up on STD transmission, and be more discriminating about who you swap fluids with.
No did not sleep, i feel ashamed that I didn't this is Everyman dream
I made out first date and I felted so sick when I found out she Mod cut. a guy 3 weeks before meeting me and made out. Haven't got laid or dates for like a year or two ��
Last edited by PJSaturn; 04-06-2016 at 09:46 PM..
Reason: Not PG-13.
I'm sorry if I'm no being clear guys I'm just freaking out with this conflict of manhood/ if I contracted something.
Everyone is telling me I'm being paranoid I only made out and should of used a comdom and slept with her
Will get the test tomorrow for sure, my chances shouldn't be that high for only making out right? Did I made the right decision not to continue this fwb she literally told me on the second day I should Mod cut. her
Last edited by PJSaturn; 04-06-2016 at 09:47 PM..
Reason: Inappropriate language.
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