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This sort of thug has never gotten the time of day from me, unless the "few words" were due to shyness and he typically opened up when feeling comfortable. My ex-husband was like this. I could tell there was a lot going on under the surface, though. If not I'd never have said yes to the first date.
This sort of thug has never gotten the time of day from me, unless the "few words" were due to shyness and he typically opened up when feeling comfortable. My ex-husband was like this. I could tell there was a lot going on under the surface, though. If not I'd never have said yes to the first date.
I think it is easier to build attraction with a great physique and some solid clothes/accessories. Building with words alone is more challenging. Words require more of the rational part of the brain and it is better to appeal to the more emotional side. Big muscles and good clothes/accessories communicate an emotional feeling.
I think it is easier to build attraction with a great physique and some solid clothes/accessories. Building with words alone is more challenging. Words require more of the rational part of the brain and it is better to appeal to the more emotional side. Big muscles and good clothes/accessories communicate an emotional feeling.
That's correct, words ARE challenging.
That's part of what makes a bright man who knows how to communicate so attractive.
Who wants some slab of meat who has average to low capacity in communication? I mean I'm sure there's a pot for every lid but quality women tend to want quality men.
That's part of what makes a bright man who knows how to communicate so attractive.
Who wants some slab of meat who has average to low capacity in communication? I mean I'm sure there's a pot for every lid but quality women tend to want quality men.
What you say has merit from your point-of-view.
Most women are not quality women. The OP is a single guy who presumably is looking for options. Ideally, he wants the most amount of options. He can appeal to the most amount of women with big muscles and limited use of words. If he has big muscles and the ability to formulate articulate, cogent points of discussion, even better! The big muscles will get a physical response from women and just keeping the words simple and succinct will keep up from messing up on the way to getting what he wants, which is sex.
I think it is easier to build attraction with a great physique and some solid clothes/accessories. Building with words alone is more challenging. Words require more of the rational part of the brain and it is better to appeal to the more emotional side. Big muscles and good clothes/accessories communicate an emotional feeling.
OP, give us a scenario. What do you mean by coming and going. In and out of doors? Give a specific situation.
Something that doesn't sound like a pick-up line would be best, IMO. Maybe, "I'd really like to talk to you, but I can't think of what to say. Got any ideas?"
Maybe she'll laugh. Then, maybe, "Can I ask what you do for a living?"
Then, just keep asking her questions about herself. Not questions like "Do you like sex in hot tubs." Questions like, "Do you like where you live? Do you have any hobbies? Can I take you out for coffee tomorrow?"
You're more likely to get lucky, if it doesn't look like that's your major objective.
Women, normally, don't want to hear what a man would want to hear. A man would love to hear about how good she is in bed. A woman doesn't want to hear that. A woman wants to feel like you find her interesting and mysterious, and not just a place to enter, if you know what I mean.
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