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Old 04-13-2016, 08:03 PM
 
Location: East coast-New England
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OP...people can squawk about you being insecure all they want. But...she and this guy flirted...they were attracted to each other. He has told her they should have kept things up, etc.

AND..she keeps bringing this dude up in conversation? REALLY? Why is she bringing up this other guy all the time? Its not like he is some lifelong friend of hers. He is some dude she met who wanted to bang her and they were both attracted to each other. There is really no need for her have him on her page. This dude should be easy for her to delete.

Plus, she travels a lot ? Uh huh.

NO!
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Old 04-16-2016, 07:54 AM
 
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so yes, Im guilty of snooping around her fb. She's been looking him up several times this week. They don't talk, she isn't commenting on his pics or anything... She's just looking him up frequently since the last week, I just don't know how to bring it up. Why is she looking him up so much lately?
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Old 04-16-2016, 07:56 AM
 
Location: Canada
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so yes, Im guilty of snooping around her fb. She's been looking him up several times this week. They don't talk, she isn't commenting on his pics or anything... She's just looking him up frequently since the last week, I just don't know how to bring it up. Why is she looking him up so much lately?
How are we supposed to know? Tell her you're a snoop and then ask HER.
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Old 04-16-2016, 07:57 AM
 
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I can't tell her Im a snoop
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Old 04-16-2016, 07:59 AM
 
Location: Howaboutno?
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So you've taken up a year and a half of this girl's time without bothering to get serious and marry her (shacking up isn't getting serious), or even plan a marriage, but you want to control that she sees some other guy's posts on Facebook?

Between the serious waste of time and the controlling attitude, I would definitely dump you.
This presumes his time is worthless & her time is the only one with value. So sad that you are that way. How are your cats?
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Old 04-16-2016, 08:03 AM
 
Location: Howaboutno?
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Listen OP, it's your relationship, and if you're not happy about something.... you let her know. Be honest and upfront about your insecurities. Set boundaries in what is acceptable and not acceptable in a relationship you envision.

Talk it out. Communication is key if you want solve this.
This one...

I'd say she's sabotaging things on purpose. I've seen it a lot. Some guys will call it a sh## test. Guess what... there is no passing them. She'll have another loaded if you call her properly on this one. You've got the wrong girl.

The Italian Guy
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Old 04-16-2016, 08:53 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I can't tell her Im a snoop
Then you need to quit snooping because it makes you a liar too.
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Old 04-16-2016, 10:17 AM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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It seems like your obsession is feeding her own escapism. Either talk about, get over it, ir breakup.
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Old 04-16-2016, 06:39 PM
 
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How can you tell how many times she's looked him up? My searches don't seem to have a counter on them.
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Old 04-16-2016, 06:50 PM
 
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It's threads like these.....

That make me glad I don't
have to deal with such drama
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