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View Poll Results: What would you do?
stay in the relationship 1 2.50%
stay in the relationship, help raise the kid. 1 2.50%
end the relationship 38 95.00%
something else, I'll share in the comments 0 0%
Voters: 40. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 04-18-2016, 05:47 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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So this is very much a hypothetical thread here. Imagine you were in a the following situation*. How would you react.

Let's pretend you were in a long term relationship and your partner went on a trip to South America. They return....all is normal, till a couple months later.

You find out your partner had a vacation hookup. And now there is a pregnancy.

Would you:
A. stay in the relationship
B. stay in the relationship, help raise the kid
C. end the relationship
D. something else, I'll share in the comments


*inspired by a true story!
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Old 04-18-2016, 05:49 PM
 
Location: Ralphs
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If unmarried and no current kids are involved, end the relationship.
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Old 04-18-2016, 06:51 PM
 
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Um...it's definitely grounds for breaking up unless he's just like super, super awesome and this was an unfortunate, one time major slip up.
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Old 04-18-2016, 06:52 PM
 
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Gone.
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Old 04-18-2016, 07:30 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Pfft!
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Old 04-18-2016, 07:34 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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Peace.
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Old 04-18-2016, 07:36 PM
 
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Um...it's definitely grounds for breaking up unless he's just like super, super awesome and this was an unfortunate, one time major slip up.



Sorry, not enough awesome in the world.
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Old 04-18-2016, 07:40 PM
 
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First I'd see if the dad's very wealthy and/or a well known public figure.
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Old 04-18-2016, 07:43 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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The real guy is an average upper middle class 30-something white guy. Good job. Good family.

Seriously this happened to my colleague's former coworker! I was like that is a telenovela story.
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Old 04-18-2016, 08:41 PM
 
Location: NY
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Forget that. I'd be out.
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