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So, it seems as if everything is there including the chemistry until you kiss. To me this sounds like an intimacy issue on your side or a need to sabotage things. My guess would be that you have a history of not very satisfying relationships or chaotic ones
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Originally Posted by Just A Guy
So, it seems as if everything is there including the chemistry until you kiss. To me this sounds like an intimacy issue on your side or a need to sabotage things. My guess would be that you have a history of not very satisfying relationships or chaotic ones
Where do you get this? Sometimes it just isn't there. You can easily hit it off with someone and then try to connect physically and it just isn't there. That's not extremely uncommon. It just stinks when it happens.
Woah! Everyone calm down. He is not a bad kisser, at all.
I said he kissed me and I felt nothing. Where on earth is "bad kisser" in that statement?
Dang, Americans really can't read properly. Wow.
1. I'm not American.
2. I personally didn't say "bad kisser" but "bad kiss" - and that's two different things. I can have a "bad kiss" with somebody who is a good kisser, e.g. when there is just no chemistry. Think that's what some of the other posters were writing about as well.
3. Even though I'm not American, I find your "Americans really can't read properly" comment quite offensive. Don't think anyone was unfriendly to you, why do you have to be? Also, when people don't understand what you wrote ... maybe it's not about reading abilities but more about explaining abilities? Just a thought
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Originally Posted by timberline742
Eh, I never found that works. Ever. You might be able to make them a passable kisser, but if there isn't passion and chemistry, then there isn't much hope for great intimacy and sex, and even less hope for falling madly in love. It has to be there. I've tried to look past tepid kissing several times because the other person is hot, or super cool, or whatever and its always failed. There needs to be a spark of sometype.
That's been my experience as well.
Last edited by Summer_Rain; 05-02-2016 at 11:14 AM..
Woah! Everyone calm down. He is not a bad kisser, at all.
I said he kissed me and I felt nothing. Where on earth is "bad kisser" in that statement?
Dang, Americans really can't read properly. Wow.
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Originally Posted by Summer_Rain
1. I'm not American.
2. I personally didn't say "bad kisser" but "bad kiss" - and that's two different things. I can have a "bad kiss" with somebody who is a good kisser, e.g. when there is just no chemistry. Think that's what some of the other posters were writing about as well.
3. Even though I'm not American, I find your "Americans really can't read properly" comment quite offensive. Don't think anyone was unfriendly to you, why do you have to be? Also, when people don't understand what you wrote ... maybe it's not about reading abilities but more about explaining abilities? Just a thougtht
That's been my experience as well.
OP I agree with summer 10000000% on this
The way you written the OP it very much come across as he was a bad kisser and not you had no feeling
I'm also not American so I must be pretty stupid as well for not deciphering your post also
This is one of many reasons why I wouldn't want to be single, always "auditioning" for the part, being judged and having expectations. I think that the OP has probably been watching too many Romantic Comedies.
Lol the conclusions. Interesting. My apologies for the offensive "Americans can't read" comment.
Also, we did have a connection. Just no physical one.
Finally. I don't watch tv or movies and romantic comedies are boring.
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