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Old 05-28-2016, 03:55 PM
 
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I'm blonde with blue eyes and a young/baby face. Girls like me. Try being confident instead of posting about this on the internet and things might change.
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Old 05-28-2016, 03:57 PM
 
Location: louisville
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Travis Fimmel
Charlie Hunnam
Jude Law
Alexander Skarsgard
Neil Patrick Harris
Alexander Ludwig
Josh Holloway

Is it getting warm in here?
Ragnar is bald now... Can't use mr fimmel
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Old 05-28-2016, 04:13 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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And I'm sure she love YOU too mate!!! LMAO

She's American, from Philadelphia, not off the boat. Has more money than me ... Try again.
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Old 05-28-2016, 04:17 PM
 
Location: New Yawk
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Well on those bike rides, go b's out for 30 secs of every 4 minutes. Tell me math hello and hope the back pain subsides
Will do. The Mr. had a big ol' donkey laugh over the whole thing; "Only you could sustain an injury from sitting in one spot, minding your own business."
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Old 05-28-2016, 04:18 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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She's American, from Philadelphia, not off the boat. Has more money than me ... Try again.
Well tell her its her round mate...... Im on my way lol
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Old 05-28-2016, 04:30 PM
 
Location: SacTown
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Unless you're a blond guy and you've actually walked in my shoes then you can't say.


I find it foolish that some minorities claim that they are still being mistreated because they aren't white even in today's pc day and age but I don't walk in their shoes and I don't know what it's like to not be white.
It's likely your face and attitude not your hair.
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Old 05-28-2016, 04:31 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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Well tell her its her round mate...... Im on my way lol
Thankfully, she doesn't drink, but she'll occasionally buy me a case of beer, but never a beer at a bar. Bar food, yes, but never a beer. You like wings and bar pie? lol
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Old 05-28-2016, 04:45 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Thankfully, she doesn't drink, but she'll occasionally buy me a case of beer, but never a beer at a bar. Bar food, yes, but never a beer. You like wings and bar pie? lol
Wings!!!!!! In that case mate ....
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Old 05-28-2016, 04:47 PM
 
Location: without prejudice
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Dark colors like deep voices tend to be associated with authority. A cop dressed in light pink like a squeeky smurf munchkin voice giving you a direct command to "obey" is total LOLz. A cop dressed in black is: "uh oh I hope he's not after me". These principles are taught in certain circles including those pertaining to fashion for business executives. That is why beige suits on a POTUS would cause such a stir (because he should know better).
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Old 05-28-2016, 04:51 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I happen to be a masculine-looking, blond guy of German and Ukrainian descent who is in good shape etc yet it seems like most women, even blonde women, won't give me a second look when I'm out while my 2 best friends who both have dark hair get approached a lot more by women though one is a bit overweight and I'm in better shape than both.


With the exception of Brad Pitt and a couple others, there also seems to be a bias against blond men in Hollywood where they are often cast as villains, spoiled rich guys and in other cases as being very effeminate or even gay.


So I guess my question is that why does it seem like most women are more sexually attracted to dark-haired guys especially if they're tall too when dark-haired guys are a dime a dozen imo.
It doesn't make a lot of sense to me and I've always wondered where that "tall, dark and handsome" phrase originated from,too.


If it sounds like I'm a bit bitter, I'll admit that I am a bit bitter/frustrated as I have a lot to offer as I have a good job, I'm in good shape, I've been told I have a good personality etc.


I'm hoping that some women can weigh in on the issue as to why you prefer dark-haired men over blond men if you do etc or even if there are some who are more sexually attracted to blond men which seems to be rare.
Oh, good grief! For all the guys complaining that women "seem" to prefer dark heir, there are just as many guys with dark hair or brown hair complaining that they don't fit the American stereotype of blonde & blue (eyes).

There's got to be some basic principle at work here, like: whatever you're insecure about in yourself is what you perceive to be unpopular with the opposite sex. If you're insecure about your height, you'll imagine all women prefer tall men. If you're insecure about your facial features, you'll imagine that women prefer Germanic types, or Nordic types. If you're insecure about your hair, you'll imagine women prefer a different hair color or texture than what you have.

In sum: it's all in your head. Go out and enjoy life!
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