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Old 06-02-2016, 07:46 AM
 
Location: The South
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Yesterday my husband started to make things right with me. We have accepted that we are separating and we are in the process of getting our finances together. We can to an agreement that we can both live with. He was really nice about everything. I took the cheaper car, he got rid of the more expensive car and he got himself a new Mustang that he is happy with. So now, we have two Mustangs.

I was excited for him and his new purchase, I test drove it. We got to talking about our relationship, where we went right and where we went wrong. He told me he finally made a counseling appointment to work on his issues. I was happy that he is taking steps in the right direction to work on himself.

The conversation and beer starting flowing more and we slept together. It has been about 2 months without any action for both of us. I enjoyed the conversation, the sex, and the easiness of our relationship. I still have plans to leave, but I've always been attracted to his generosity and his charm. He turned it on big time last night.


Did I mess up?
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Old 06-02-2016, 08:08 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Yea but it's very typical.

I mean, you're human. It also shows the depth of the lack in your life right now. You are so desperate for love and attention and to want and to feel that you slept with the person who pisses you off most at the first sign of positivity.

It's normal but I wouldn't make a habit of it.
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Old 06-02-2016, 08:17 AM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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Y You are so desperate for love and attention and to want and to feel that you slept with the person who pisses you off most
100% truth!
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Old 06-02-2016, 08:21 AM
 
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A few more posts like this and we have a country & western song on our hands.

HBW, if you're for real, use your head before you make any more dumb decisions. Please. We're begging you.
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Old 06-02-2016, 08:27 AM
 
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He's still your husband. I don't remember what the reasons were that you're leaving, but I don't think it was because the sex was awful, was it? It's not even anyone's business.

You didn't take advantage of him...why are you even wondering if it was a bad idea?
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Old 06-02-2016, 11:32 AM
 
Location: Pa
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Eh, look at all the other weirdos on here. You are fine.
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Old 06-02-2016, 11:54 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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good ol' alcohol
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Old 06-02-2016, 11:58 AM
 
Location: New Yawk
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good ol' alcohol
The cause of, and solution to, most of life's problems
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Old 06-02-2016, 12:00 PM
 
Location: Sugarmill Woods , FL
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Yesterday my husband started to make things right with me. We have accepted that we are separating and we are in the process of getting our finances together. We can to an agreement that we can both live with. He was really nice about everything. I took the cheaper car, he got rid of the more expensive car and he got himself a new Mustang that he is happy with. So now, we have two Mustangs.

I was excited for him and his new purchase, I test drove it. We got to talking about our relationship, where we went right and where we went wrong. He told me he finally made a counseling appointment to work on his issues. I was happy that he is taking steps in the right direction to work on himself.

The conversation and beer starting flowing more and we slept together. It has been about 2 months without any action for both of us. I enjoyed the conversation, the sex, and the easiness of our relationship. I still have plans to leave, but I've always been attracted to his generosity and his charm. He turned it on big time last night.


Did I mess up?
YES, YES you did, again!
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Old 06-02-2016, 12:06 PM
 
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Kiss her goodnight.

Bleep her goodbye.

Makes sense.
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