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I'm interested in knowing how women usually pursue casual sex (for the ones who do). Of course all women are different, so I am interested in differing opinions on the subject.
It is so common for women to state "all men want/think about is sex," but when women are "on the prowl" and looking for casual encounters, how do you ladies usually approach things?
I'm interested in knowing how women usually pursue casual sex (for the ones who do). Of course all women are different, so I am interested in differing opinions on the subject.
It is so common for women to state "all men want/think about is sex," but when women are "on the prowl" and looking for casual encounters, how do you ladies usually approach things?
Jeff
I like sex a lot.
There are things that keep me from pursing it. (Casual sex with strangers.) Mostly fear, it's dangerous- you are putting yourself in a vulnerable place. Do you want a stranger to know where you live? It's vulnerable, do want to be naked and at the mercy of someone who might be crazy? Then you have STD's in today's world it's frightening.
So for me, I only would have what you would call casual sex with a person who has been vetted to not be crazy, someone I trust, someone I know to not have STD"s with good personal hygiene.
At the end of the day it's probably going to have to be a friend.
There are things that keep me from pursing it. (Casual sex with strangers.) Mostly fear, it's dangerous- you are putting yourself in a vulnerable place. Do you want a stranger to know where you live? It's vulnerable, do want to be naked and at the mercy of someone who might be crazy? Then you have STD's in today's world it's frightening.
So for me, I only would have what you would call casual sex with a person who has been vetted to not be crazy, someone I trust, someone I know to not have STD"s with good personal hygiene.
At the end of the day it's probably going to have to be a friend.
So yeah, what JEZ said.
Thanks for the reply!
I completely understand the safety issue. I think as men we don't always take a woman's need to feel safe and secure into consideration as much as we should. Once those needs are taken care of, do you need to have an emotional connection with a person before you have sex, or can you just go off of pure physical attraction?
I completely understand the safety issue. I think as men we don't always take a woman's need to feel safe and secure into consideration as much as we should. Once those needs are taken care of, do you need to have an emotional connection with a person before you have sex, or can you just go off of pure physical attraction?
Doesn't being made to feel safe and secure involve emotions?
Are you trying to figure out how to "trick" women into wanting to just have "casual sex" with you?
Doesn't being made to feel safe and secure involve emotions?
Are you trying to figure out how to "trick" women into wanting to just have "casual sex" with you?
Hi JerZ!
I only ask because I often hear my female friends speak on the importance of having an emotional connection with a person before sex. When I ask for details they usually can't provide anything too specific apart from having a "vibe" with the person.
I think it's healthy to try to learn some of the differences between the sexes. No trickery involved!
I only ask because I often hear my female friends speak on the importance of having an emotional connection with a person before sex. When I ask for details they usually can't provide anything too specific apart from having a "vibe" with the person.
I think it's healthy to try to learn some of the differences between the sexes. No trickery involved!
I think emotional connections facilitate attraction. For me many times a man is much more attractive if I "feel" he has given me something. It's not just one thing, it's just a feeling of safety, maybe making me feel attractive and wanted.
It could be an intellectual connection or interest.
Rarely have I ever seen a man, no matter how attractive, that I was instantly attracted to. So yeah, it's not black and white. I am guessing it's why the FWB has become so popular.
I'm interested in knowing how women usually pursue casual sex (for the ones who do). Of course all women are different, so I am interested in differing opinions on the subject.
It is so common for women to state "all men want/think about is sex," but when women are "on the prowl" and looking for casual encounters, how do you ladies usually approach things?
Jeff
When I was looking for casual encounters, I started with men I already knew. Then I moved on to bars. And I did a little online dating.
It was fun at the time. After about 2 years, I had that out of my system so I just stopped.
Sure seems that way to me. Do you think we should just give him the password?
Or the secret, uh...handshake.
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