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That's exactly why I refuse to do it. I don't want a bunch of guys I don't know to oogle over my body. It should be a private and intimate experience. Otherwise it's just doing porn.
Ok. I don't get asked for naughty pics so I can't really relate. I can only remember receiving one peen pic but that was after I had already seen it in person. It wasn't a great photo, to be honest.
I meet some guys online I find are attractive and I absolutely hate it when they do this. We'll talk a bit, then they'll ask for a naughty pic right away or send a d pix. I say no, let's just meet up, you won't be disappointed, but they make it clear that if I don't send a naughty pic they'll disappear. So I let them disappear. I don't trust strangers with those kind of pics. I even hooked up with this guy once and he knows what I look like naked but he kept pestering me about a naughty pic. When it was clear I just wasn't going to do it he disappeared. I don't get this. Is this a power thing? I ask them wouldn't the real thing be better? And they somehow want to keep this of me. I hooked up with another guy once and he kept asking if he could take a video. I said absolutely not. I yelled at him and we were supposed to meet up and he flaked out. I just don't feel comfortable letting someone keep naughty pics of me especially if i don't really know them. I can't trust them. But if they know I'll sleep with them why would they disappear if they can't get a stupid pic from me? Wtf?
These guys are common morons, just ignore them and move on.
Kelly, I promise I won't ask for a naughty pics. I actually like going out and having fun with people. But I'd refrain from taking you to a steakhouse because it offends my sensibilities.
Omfg you people.. smh.. I HAVE stopped speaking to them . Wtf is up with this broken picker bs. How am I to know how someone will act until I speak with them Jesus Christ.
It works like this. From your first post:
"....then they'll ask for a naughty pic right away or send a d pix. I say no, let's just meet up, you won't be disappointed...."
First A, then B.
A: they ask you for the pic, or send you one
B: you negotiate terms to meet IRL with this person.
That sounds like middle school..."If you don't show me something I"ll never talk to you again."
Threats should never be a reason to give up a part of your body, even visually. Fine, let these guys disappear. With a personality like that (bullying/threatening/uncaring), even if you did show them your boobs and they stuck around, would you really want them? Then they'd stick around to keep bullying you and threatening you into giving up whatever they wanted. No thanks!
Kelly, I promise I won't ask for a naughty pics. I actually like going out and having fun with people. But I'd refrain from taking you to a steakhouse because it offends my sensibilities.
I meet some guys online I find are attractive and I absolutely hate it when they do this. We'll talk a bit, then they'll ask for a naughty pic right away or send a d pix. I say no, let's just meet up, you won't be disappointed, but they make it clear that if I don't send a naughty pic they'll disappear. So I let them disappear. I don't trust strangers with those kind of pics. I even hooked up with this guy once and he knows what I look like naked but he kept pestering me about a naughty pic. When it was clear I just wasn't going to do it he disappeared. I don't get this. Is this a power thing? I ask them wouldn't the real thing be better? And they somehow want to keep this of me. I hooked up with another guy once and he kept asking if he could take a video. I said absolutely not. I yelled at him and we were supposed to meet up and he flaked out. I just don't feel comfortable letting someone keep naughty pics of me especially if i don't really know them. I can't trust them. But if they know I'll sleep with them why would they disappear if they can't get a stupid pic from me? Wtf?
Guys do this because they are a-holes and see you as a piece of meat. They have no feelings toward you. You might as well be a steak. You're dealing with guys who are users. They dont care. If they get a naked pic of you great. If they dint ah well. And if they do get a pic they will simply brag to their friends "dude this chic I'm doing right now..wants me so bad .. Check it she send me naked pics. I'm awesome. Yeah I might go there later show her what's up." About as close they would get to your nakedness is that pic. ****ing troglodytes
What you need is self confidence and self respect. If all a guy sees you as is a sex object that's probably a guy you don't even want to give the time of day to much less contemplate maybe dating.
I would never send a woman I may want to date a naked pic nor would I ask for one. If I asked my wife for a naked pic she would just hang up on me. Probably ask me to go take a drug test.
I meet some guys online I find are attractive and I absolutely hate it when they do this. We'll talk a bit, then they'll ask for a naughty pic right away or send a d pix. I say no, let's just meet up, you won't be disappointed, but they make it clear that if I don't send a naughty pic they'll disappear. So I let them disappear. I don't trust strangers with those kind of pics. I even hooked up with this guy once and he knows what I look like naked but he kept pestering me about a naughty pic. When it was clear I just wasn't going to do it he disappeared. I don't get this. Is this a power thing? I ask them wouldn't the real thing be better? And they somehow want to keep this of me. I hooked up with another guy once and he kept asking if he could take a video. I said absolutely not. I yelled at him and we were supposed to meet up and he flaked out. I just don't feel comfortable letting someone keep naughty pics of me especially if i don't really know them. I can't trust them. But if they know I'll sleep with them why would they disappear if they can't get a stupid pic from me? Wtf?
So you meet a guy, sleep with him right away, and expect him not to be a douche.
It's odd to me that I know why you're having this problem, but you clearly don't.
So you meet a guy, sleep with him right away, and expect him not to be a douche.
It's odd to me that I know why you're having this problem, but you clearly don't.
Did I miss where she slept with them??
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