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Old 07-02-2016, 07:52 AM
 
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Cellphone pictures of the cheater works great!!
And post them on Facebook!
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Old 07-02-2016, 08:50 AM
 
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You should have walked up to him in the restaurant and said hello.
That's what I would've done! And say something about your friend like, "Hey can you make sure to tell Betty to give me a call so we can coordinate our double date with you guys?" And then introduce yourself to the random girl by saying, "Hi I'm so and so. His girlfriend is my best friend so that's how we know each other."

Because I guarantee that the girl doesn't even know he has a girlfriend. He most likely told her he was single and she is totally in the dark about the truth. So someone should've clued her in since he's a jerk and didn't have the balls to be honest.

And yes you should tell her but as others have said, you really should get photos of them kissing in case she doesn't believe you.
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Old 07-02-2016, 05:41 PM
 
Location: Avignon, France
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I would have made sure that he saw me too.. Let him sweat a little before I dropped a dime on him.
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Old 07-02-2016, 05:43 PM
 
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You should have walked up to him in the restaurant and said hello.
I like how you think.
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Old 07-02-2016, 05:46 PM
 
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I saw my friend's boyfriend cheating on her with another woman this afternoon at a local restaurant. He was kissing her. This is the second time I saw him doing this at the diner. I don't know what to do. Should I tell her, or keep it secret?
Next time call your friend and have her meet you at the diner.
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Old 07-02-2016, 09:14 PM
 
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She's your friend. You must tell her.
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Old 07-02-2016, 09:18 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I've never been in this position and I don't want to be, call me a chickenshyt, but I don't want to be in that position.

My gut thought is that I'd tell the person bout it, but I have a feeling it would fall under the category of "no good deed goes unpunished"
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Old 07-02-2016, 10:05 PM
 
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Tell your friend. I never understood why people would go accused their trusted friend of lying? Seriously, if you can't trust your friends, you shouldn't be friends with them in the first place.

I don't go around calling people friend. Very hard to come inside my inner circle. So, if I call you a friend....I know that I trust you with my life and you should trust me with your life.

May be people need better friends or they need to hold on to that inner circle a little tighter and let less people in.
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Old 07-03-2016, 06:23 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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I saw my friend's boyfriend cheating on her with another woman this afternoon at a local restaurant. He was kissing her. This is the second time I saw him doing this at the diner. I don't know what to do. Should I tell her, or keep it secret?
Would she believe you if you told her?

I've seen it when this has occured and the injured party then accused her of wanting her boyfriend and just throwing a spanner in the works

If you do tell her tread carefully
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Old 07-03-2016, 07:50 AM
 
Location: Las Vegas
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give her hints that her boyfriend is cheating on her. If you tell her directly, and you don't have a boyfriend, she may not believe you
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