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She lives in another state, but I just noticed on facebook that yesterday night, she checked in back in town with one her female friends who lives here. She friend requested me on facebook in march and I sent her a message, saying that if she ever comes to visit, we can hang out and catch up, and she said, yes that maybe we can hang out when she visits. She is currently single.
The thing is, I'm waiting for her to send me a message or something that she is here. I don't have her number yet. I don't want to send a message asking if she is really here and if we are going to see each other, because it may come off as desperate, or that I REALLY want to see her, even though I do, is probably best not to show it, I don't know, but I'm trying to be active on facebook, liking some stuff and updating my profile pic, so she notices me lol
and yes, we had sex before and I was hoping to hang out and remember old times, she seemed cool about seeing each other again.
what should i do? Should I wait for her to message me, what if she forgets and never does and i miss my chance to see her?
should I simply message her asking if she is here?
She lives in another state, but I just noticed on facebook that yesterday night, she checked in back in town with one her female friends who lives here. She friend requested me on facebook in march and I sent her a message, saying that if she ever comes to visit, we can hang out and catch up, and she said, yes that maybe we can hang out when she visits. She is currently single.
The thing is, I'm waiting for her to send me a message or something that she is here. I don't have her number yet. I don't want to send a message asking if she is really here and if we are going to see each other, because it come off as desperate or creepy, or that I REALLY want to see her, even though I do, I don't know, so I'm trying to be active on facebook, liking stuff and updating my profile pic, so she notices me lol
and yes, we had sex before and I was hoping to hang out and remember old times, she seemed cool about seeing each other again.
what should i do? Should I wait for her to message me, what if she forgets and never does and i miss my chance to see her?
should I simply message her asking if she is here?
If she friend requested you in the first place and you get on there's nothing wrong with you checking out her profile every now and then.
If you really want to see her then go for it mate
No I'd say " hiya ( her name ) just noticed you are coming back to town, it would be lovely to see you again when are you coming? "......... It's not exactly creepy but friendly and can be as platonic or sexual as you want ( depending on your intentions ) i
If she friend requested you in the first place and you get on there's nothing wrong with you checking out her profile every now and then.
If you really want to see her then go for it mate
I wasn't checking out her profile, it just appeared yesterday night on my newsfeed that she was checked in town with a friend and 30 people liked it, so she is definitely here, I'm always offline on facebook chat, but I have noticed she was online recently.
I don't know if she still wants to see me or she has forgotten about me. I want to remind her, but I don't want to appear desperate you know.
I wasn't checking out her profile, it just appeared yesterday night on my newsfeed that she was checked in town with a friend and 30 people liked it, so she is definitely here, I'm always offline on facebook chat, but I have noticed she was online recently.
I don't know if she still wants to see me or she has forgotten about me. I want to remind her, but I don't want to appear desperate you know.
How's it desperate?......
She's an old flame right? ..... You know each other well enough?.......Would she think you were desperate or is it you worrying?
She's an old flame right? ..... You know each other well enough?.......Would she think you were desperate or is it you worrying?
The thing is I don't know how long she is staying, so maybe I should wait for 2 or 3 days and see if she contacts me, if not, then ill just say a simple hi asking if she is here
The thing is I don't know how long she is staying, so maybe I should wait for 2 or 3 days and see if she contacts me, if not, then ill just say a simple hi asking if she is here
What if she's back for a wedding or something and only there for a few days?
You do sound kinda desperate. Let her reply. That'd be your cue to pursue. Not all exes wanna "hang out" and rekindle, some do, but I'd think you would know your situation better than the city data forum..
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