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Me the old guy met a much younger woman and I uttered the words quickly...why waste time....we are into our third year now. Of course I love her....why would I have sex with someone who I did not like.... I am to old for that....besides if the woman excepts your love...instantly...you are going to be a happy guy....
I've been dating this one woman for about a month now and we're both very involved in the Bedroom Olympics. The other day, I was so very close to saying those words to her, but we're not in what you'd call a committed relationship.....yet.
I made the mistake of the ''I love you'' talk during sex with one partner, who happened to be a FWB. It wasn't the first time we had hooked up, not even close. But we were talking, I don't know if I wanna say talking ''Dirty'' to each other. But we were talking back and forth and she said something (don't remember exactly what) and I blurted out a bunch of stuff and one of the things to come out was an ''I love you''.
In my adult life, I haven't said too many things that I didn't mean and don't like the excuse of ''I had no control over my words''. The funny thing was that I think I did mean what I said, just not in the sense of actually being in love with her on any level besides sexually. I was completely sober when I said this. She had already started telling me before this had happened, of how strong her feelings were becoming for me. Then she nagged me even more, after I had said this.
But at the time, I was stupid for pushing her away and not wanting to be with her like that. But I met my fiance just a couple weeks later, so no regrets.
I LOVE YOU is so intimate and sexy that it supports and encourages libido. Nothing wrong with saying these sweet words....and besides it is better than grunting like a self serving ape.
i disagree. please don't say it if you don't mean it.
OP, be honest. Were you hoping he really meant it? I have to think so since you said he's your crush.
What do you risk by telling him you are attracted to him as a person and would like to date for real? The worse he could say is "no." The best would be "yes." Either way you'd know, right?
Why not ask? This way you can stop wondering, and who knows...maybe he'll agree to trying a relationship with you on for size...I mean you really never do know.
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