Bank girl giving me signs or just friendly? (boyfriend, husband, attractive)
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I recently went to the bank, to get my debit card replaced. She was very attractive and helped me out. We got into conversation about how I dislike debit cards and make a long story short I said I also dislike phones because it creates to many problems. She agreed and said "drama". She mentioned her house and how she just decorated it for Halloween already. She never mentioned a husband or boyfriend. I talked to her about how I work at a place that sells Projection lights for Halloween now like they do for Christmas. She got excited and I said she should come to my work and check them out. She said yes I'll have to check them out. Then after everything that was said and done she said well have a good weekend, I said I should because I'm off all weekend. She said "what are you going to do" I said well, Idk maybe go fishing. She said you should def go out as in be outside. I kinda ended the conversation I was in a rush. But I said I hope you have a good weekend. She said the same.
Any person in a retail or customer service position are generally suppose to be welcoming and friendly...
Do not quickly assume that its any more than that.
With that said..... Familiarity that comes with being a regular or frequent good customer can quicklymove towards being considered an acquaintance rather than just another customer. That opens thr door to other possibilities
Hard to say. She could have been just passing the time. Service jobs can be boring, so when a bright, friendly sort comes along, it can break the monotony to have a pleasant chat. But you invited her to come to your work and check out the wares. Did you tell her where you work, or give her your card? Does she know where to go? If so, you can wait to see if she shows up eventually. You can also wave at her and smile the next time you go to the bank. If she ends up serving you, you can chat a bit more, then give her your card as you leave, to give her a clear signal. The ball will be clearly in her court at that point.
Understandable. The sad part is I had to go back in two hours later because I lost it....lmao. She was with a customer but she didn't look or seem as friendly as she was when talking to me. But I understand what your saying.
Yes, she said that get her decorations from Menards. I said "oh we have better stuff at Lowes" you should come check them out.
Then it's up to chance as to whether she'll show up on your shift. But the fact that she didn't give you a smile when you went back could indicate that she was only being friendly. Or it could mean she was focusing on her customer, as she should. Either way, don't get your hopes up, but be friendly the next time you happen to get her window.
No I didn't deal with her the second time. She was with someone else. I just went up to a bank teller. So I have still have to go back for a card. I never got a replacement I ended up just taking out the money I needed.
Bank tellers and people in customer service are paid to be friendly. I wouldn't think anymore of it.
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