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But I had a similar situation with a cashier at a convenient store, who it turned out was actually interested in me. That's one of my epic misses from my low point unsuccessful days with women. She used to be friendly and talkative with everyone that came into that place and even borderline flirty with half the guys, so I always brushed it off.
Understandable. The sad part is I had to go back in two hours later because I lost it....lmao. She was with a customer but she didn't look or seem as friendly as she was when talking to me. But I understand what your saying.
Thank you for your opinion.
It is hard to say for sure however, customer service related positions require one be personable so she may be this way with everyone.
Perhaps wait until you have to go back to the bank and see if her attitude is the same.
I am curious though how did you lose a debit card in 2 hours?
I wouldn't jump the gun here. When you do a banking transaction, go into the banking area where she works. If she acts just as friendly, hand her a business card or flyer, and then she is she comes to your place of work. If she doesn't, you'll have your answer.
I recently went to the bank, to get my debit card replaced. She was very attractive and helped me out. We got into conversation about how I dislike debit cards and make a long story short I said I also dislike phones because it creates to many problems. She agreed and said "drama". She mentioned her house and how she just decorated it for Halloween already. She never mentioned a husband or boyfriend. I talked to her about how I work at a place that sells Projection lights for Halloween now like they do for Christmas. She got excited and I said she should come to my work and check them out. She said yes I'll have to check them out. Then after everything that was said and done she said well have a good weekend, I said I should because I'm off all weekend. She said "what are you going to do" I said well, Idk maybe go fishing. She said you should def go out as in be outside. I kinda ended the conversation I was in a rush. But I said I hope you have a good weekend. She said the same.
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Yeah you really need to get out more.
The girls at the payday loan place used to flirt hard, until I actually paid the loans off and did not take out another.
Everybody, including OP, here has no idea of what this lady's intentions are. She may be friendly for business reasons, she may actually have connected with you. How about you confidently say to her "I've really enjoyed our conversation, how about lunch sometime?"
One time I went to the bank in the summer wearing jeans and the teller said "you're too hot to wear jeans...I mean it's too hot to wear jeans". I should have jumped on that
For some reason debit cards and me don't go well together. I break them or lose them a lot. Thank god they print them out at the banks now or I would be screwed.
Honestly, the city I live in a lot of people don't have manners. I'm not ugly either...I'm not hottest guy either. Sometimes you can just tell, we had good eye contact and I even made her fumble some of her words. Maybe just friendly maybe not. Just wanted people's opinions. I was in a rush that day so when I go back I will figure it for sure then.
Go back in a couple weeks, maybe a month would be a bit better, make an effort to be assisted by her, then remind her of who you are. If she remembers the conversation, and continues to banter, ask her if she's seeing anyone at the moment. Make it casual, but a serious inquiry. If she doesn't bite, don't make it weird though.
And remember, she doesn't have to guess what you can afford to spend on her, or what your wages are. She already knows.
I recently went to the bank, to get my debit card replaced. She was very attractive and helped me out. We got into conversation about how I dislike debit cards and make a long story short I said I also dislike phones because it creates to many problems. She agreed and said "drama". She mentioned her house and how she just decorated it for Halloween already. She never mentioned a husband or boyfriend. I talked to her about how I work at a place that sells Projection lights for Halloween now like they do for Christmas. She got excited and I said she should come to my work and check them out. She said yes I'll have to check them out. Then after everything that was said and done she said well have a good weekend, I said I should because I'm off all weekend. She said "what are you going to do" I said well, Idk maybe go fishing. She said you should def go out as in be outside. I kinda ended the conversation I was in a rush. But I said I hope you have a good weekend. She said the same.
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Hard to tell..... I pulled one in a bank years ago mate after going there a few times, talking to her about general banking and after seeing her reaction when I walked in I asked her out and we met for a few drinks after she finished....... We had a relationship for 6 months
If you like her then ask her out mate.... Personally I'd wait and see her reaction when you walk in ( there's a huge difference in customer service and when they actually are pleased to see you. ).
Good luck
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