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Haven't posted in forever, so I figured I would check in.
My life's sucked as usual, Got nailed to the wall with taxes, so I'm working two jobs to try and save up for the April doom's day. Divorce papers still aren't in order, waiting on the money to file
But other then that.... well, that's pretty much it. I've been drinking alot lately. I'm going through a bottle of whiskey in 3-4 days. not too good eh? ah well, I drink to sleep.
Come on now self destruction is not the way to go, forget the whiskey before you have a worst problem. What is it that bothers you the most? is it the money or is it her? Are you staying in contact with her? Is she doing the same as you? Please don't let yourself become your worst enemy. We all know she hurt you but don't allow her to continue hurting you by your own self destruction. Stay in touch here and let us know how your doing, we would all like to see you get through this and move on.
Come on now self destruction is not the way to go, forget the whiskey before you have a worst problem. What is it that bothers you the most? is it the money or is it her? Are you staying in contact with her? Is she doing the same as you? Please don't let yourself become your worst enemy. We all know she hurt you but don't allow her to continue hurting you by your own self destruction. Stay in touch here and let us know how your doing, we would all like to see you get through this and move on.
I second, third, and fourth ALL of what Roaddog said in his post!!!
Welcome back! I read something the other day that said
"taking care of yourself is like giving yourself a gift every day." Please give yourself a boat load of gifts! Besides the world is still out there waiting for you. The money thing will pass, you can make payments on your taxes if you set it up and like all dark clouds this will pass. Please take care of yourself and post often.
The best way to get the upper hand in the worst of situations is to live life to it's fullest. I've been through the divorce situation, and believe me it take a while to get your feelings together, but if your letting the whiskey do the feeling, well your not dealing. Try somenix (or something over the counter) for the sleeping... You may not get 8 hours of straight sleep, but you won't wake up feeling hung over and bitter. You have to deal with all of your problems with a clear a focused mind..otherwise your problems with just compound. Obviously you have people who care about you on cd...talk it out and post more often...Take care
I agree with the other posters here. Maybe make payments on those taxes and set that money to file those papers aside and learn to enjoy your own company and start a new life. You can't go around the emotions and feelings you have, they'll come back later on in life.
Come on now self destruction is not the way to go, forget the whiskey before you have a worst problem.
Be strong Lost. I know it's easy for all of us to say since we're not living your life. Remember, that which does not break us, makes us stronger.
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