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You are the guy, so show a little initiative with something like "hope you are having a nice day" text or "just saw a .... and was thinking of you." (insert the kind of car she drives, or the kind of dog she has or whatever.
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I'm not going to bug anyone. If I act right away it may backfire.
Dude, are you not reading what people are saying? My comment wasn't to act, you already acted. Move on. F the "holding pattern". You asked. It's on her.
Dude, are you not reading what people are saying? My comment wasn't to act, you already acted. Move on. F the "holding pattern". You asked. It's on her.
Move on and live your darn life.
for some reason I don't think I have been completey shut out, some other think so to. It could be legit
I wont ask in a week or even two week or maybe three. I'm going to make small talk and see how it goes. Then decide If I will try again
I didn't say "ask!" I said you'll know if she contacts you. In other words, wait. If you don't hear from her then you have your answer and it's time to move on.
Yes, OP. Simply asking for coffee is not jumping the gun. BUT you know what's going on. She is calling you, IF she still wants the date. If she doesn't, she isn't calling. It is that simple and none of us is psychic and can tell you any more than that.
Isn't a "coffee date" like an afternoon type thing? *Super-busy* people probably work all day or have school, hobbies, housework, errands, kids or whatever, so don't necessarily have room to squeeze in a recreational coffee meetup into their day.. it just sounds tedious.
Guess I figure dinner/drinks is always the better option. Nobody's too busy to eat, lol. And what woman turns down wine? Lol- Tell me that doesn't sound great right about now!
Isn't a "coffee date" like an afternoon type thing? *Super-busy* people probably work all day or have school, hobbies, housework, errands, kids or whatever, so don't necessarily have room to squeeze in a recreational coffee meetup into their day.. it just sounds tedious.
Guess I figure dinner/drinks is always the better option. Nobody's too busy to eat, lol. And what woman turns down wine? Lol- Tell me that doesn't sound great right about now!
So what are you saying?
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