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Old 11-28-2016, 12:30 PM
 
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Best to leave. Of the 4 different women I've dated the last 2 years, when each of them ended, I was only surprised with 1. The one I was surprised with caught me most off guard since we weren't official all that long, but I did realize something was off with our relationship leading up to the breakup.


Best to tell her now, because going to a wedding together as a couple is not wise, when one of you wants out of the relationship. Best for her to go alone than think the relationship could rebound after the wedding, but you've already checked out.
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Old 11-28-2016, 04:04 PM
 
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You're doing her a favor by breaking up with her now.
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Old 11-28-2016, 04:11 PM
 
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Could you break up now but offer to be her date for the wedding?
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Old 11-28-2016, 04:21 PM
 
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Could you break up now but offer to be her date for the wedding?
Interesting idea. I would actually do that if she asked. I'm afraid she will be too hurt though. She's very into me,
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Old 11-28-2016, 06:47 PM
 
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Interesting idea. I would actually do that if she asked. I'm afraid she will be too hurt though. She's very into me,
Well, maybe you should wait till after the wedding. That way she won't feel so vulnerable and awkward going alone.
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Old 11-28-2016, 07:05 PM
 
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whatever you do be a man about it......don't run and hide,,,,dont blame her..
don't try to ump one of her friends and humiliate her

take her to the wedding.....be a gentleman....just for your own self integrity

then break it off gently...

start smoking,,,,,,, that will usually make them run off
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Old 11-29-2016, 04:25 AM
 
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whatever you do be a man about it......don't run and hide,,,,dont blame her..
don't try to ump one of her friends and humiliate her

take her to the wedding.....be a gentleman....just for your own self integrity

then break it off gently...

start smoking,,,,,,, that will usually make them run off
LOL, really? I'm not so sure about that.
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Old 11-29-2016, 06:23 AM
 
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whatever you do be a man about it......don't run and hide,,,,dont blame her..
don't try to ump one of her friends and humiliate her

take her to the wedding.....be a gentleman....just for your own self integrity

then break it off gently...

start smoking,,,,,,, that will usually make them run off
Start Smoking! HA. That would actually run her off. Or tell her I quit my job to work at McDonalds and I'm moving in with my parents. HA!
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Old 11-29-2016, 08:07 AM
 
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Start Smoking! HA. That would actually run her off.
You haven't told her yet?
Grow a pair and do it NOW
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Old 11-29-2016, 10:08 AM
 
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I've been seeing this girl that I want to break up with. She was a wedding coming up on the weekend that I am going to with her. Should I wait until after the wedding so she doesn't have to go alone?
Would the break up come out of the blue for her and who's wedding is it? ( someone from her side i.e. Family/friend etc ).
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