Should I pursue a woman who is engaged (boyfriends, cheating, attracted)

[Cantabridgienne]

I'm really puzzled as to why you think someone not talking much about their personal life in a professional setting is a sign of their attraction to you.

[Missy2U]

Originally Posted by Cantabridgienne

I'm really puzzled as to why you think someone not talking much about their personal life in a professional setting is a sign of their attraction to you.

NO KIDDING! I've been trying to figure out a way to say that from what he has said, she is NOT "into" him. She's being friendly and nice. THAT IS ALL. He frankly sounds delusional. If he asks her out or "pursues" her, he shouldn't be surprised if he makes her SO uncomfortable, she stops dealing with him in that professional capacity AT ALL.

[Mikala43]

Originally Posted by StarfoxGod

bro go for it!!!! However if she accepts and you both hit it off, I would never trust a woman like that. This would only mean she is an opportunist or a cheater by nature. You won't be the most special guy to walk the face of the earth so tread carefully. Me personally I wouldn't bother because I'm not cool sharing and or taking someone else's lock. I like having my own and knowing she's mine and that no person is breaking into my stuff.

We agree on this.

[JerZ]

Originally Posted by Blanash99

There is this woman who I've been seeing for months for professional services. She is really good at what she does and that's why I come back to her business. Every time we talk we have this connection and she somewhat flirts and says I'm funny and makes jokes nad laughs. All the cues you notice if a woman is interested. I wanted to ask her out but I saw this ring on on her ring finger. I asked her one day and she said it's an engagement ring.

It's funny, because whenever I talk about her fiancé she quickly makes a quick response. In other words she rarely ever talks about her fiancé unless I bring it up, and when I do it's usually a quick response. For ex:she asked what I did for the holidays, I told her what I did. I asked her what she did, all she said was she went out of town. I asked did you go out of town with your fiancé, she replied back with yeah, then she changed the subject and we start developing that chemistry again.

I don't know, I mean if he was just a boyfriend I would ask her out. However that ring is making me think twice

I really like her and I know she really likes me. Would it be a good idea to ask her out or better yet just make a move on her?

Of course you shouldn't. You know you shouldn't.

[49ersfan27]

Many women are single so why do some men waste their time on women who are in relationships already?

[green_mariner]

Originally Posted by 49ersfan27

^ Boom end thread.

Basically. Why anyone would pursue an engaged woman is beyond my thinking.

[green_mariner]

Originally Posted by 49ersfan27

Many women are single so why do some men waste their time on women who are in relationships already?

Wanting what you can't have. Same with women who try to go after men in relationships. Plenty of decent single men. However, the ones with women get chased more.

[Mikala43]

"I want me a woman who cheats!!!!"



That's essentially what you are saying OP.

[Auraliea]

Originally Posted by funymann

But I like honey. It's good for you.

Ha!

[49ersfan27]

Originally Posted by green_mariner

Basically. Why anyone would pursue an engaged woman is beyond my thinking.

I wouldn't waste my time on a woman who has a boyfriend, is engaged, or is married. What would be the point? I won't even be friends with a woman who is in a relationship.