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I actually never found out something bad about someone. I instead found something bad about myself. My idiot ex uploaded nude photos of me when things ended. He uploaded the pics on some FB page and more than 30,000 people must have seen it. As soon as I noticed that it was taken down asap. I should have brought that f***** to court. He was real immature and filled with rage because things ended when I found him cheating. It was so embarrassing though, his friends, parents and strangers saw my naked body. I will never take nude pics for anyone again lol. I honestly wouldn't be surprised if those pics are on a porn site but I don't wanna know I'd freak out a bit..
I just took it as a lesson to never do that again.
Isn't it amazing how many men ruin life for other men?
Probably a lot of decent guys would love to have photos of their significant other, but immature guys like your old boyfriend make it too risky for women to agree.
Isn't it amazing how many men ruin life for other men?
Probably a lot of decent guys would love to have photos of their significant other, but immature guys like your old boyfriend make it too risky for women to agree.
I wish you had taken him to court.
Not only that, but it's so easy for the pictures to get stolen or hacked nowadays. I would never taken nude photos of my significant other, even if I wanted to. I would be terrified of what could happen to them.
This was many years ago, but I had some nude pictures of my ex girlfriend on my computer. We broke up and I deleted all of them. A few years later I found them on my backup hard drive, my computer had automatically backed them up to another computer. That was scary because I was selling all my computer hardware and I was recently engaged. Can you imagine if my wife had ever seen them, she knows they existed, but boy, nothing good could have come of that! Just be careful of what you do, and with phones auto backup data to clouds, who knows where the pictures could end up going.
I agree she should have taken him to court. Most states have revenge porn laws now.
I actually never found out something bad about someone. I instead found something bad about myself. My idiot ex uploaded nude photos of me when things ended. He uploaded the pics on some FB page and more than 30,000 people must have seen it. As soon as I noticed that it was taken down asap. I should have brought that f***** to court. He was real immature and filled with rage because things ended when I found him cheating. It was so embarrassing though, his friends, parents and strangers saw my naked body. I will never take nude pics for anyone again lol. I honestly wouldn't be surprised if those pics are on a porn site but I don't wanna know I'd freak out a bit..
I just took it as a lesson to never do that again.
Ugh, that sucks. I only take those kinds of sexy photos of me that could either be anyone or they are ok to be sent out to the world. You never know what people do in extreme circumstances.
I found an ex-boyfriend's mugshot online -didn't find details on exactly what he did, only that it was in North Carolina, and it involved trespassing. (knowing him, I'm going to say he was trying to a film a movie or take pictures in a graveyard, after hours)
But, it's usually on the point of being a sad-act on my part.
So, I don't advise it to anyone else.
Consider where you are at when you are doing these things. And, why exactly you are doing this "research".
Aren't you glad you did it?
Why we do this: To prevent wasting time with scammers. To prevent meeting up with potentially dangerous criminals. To prevent wasting time with married people.
Too many potential risks out there that can be eliminated if you research and protect yourself. Especially if you are a woman. It can make a difference of life and death or rape and no rape!
I checked out the last few women for very particular reasons. I'll tell you the spacifics...
Women 1, a very high interest woman. Wanted to even marry me
Beautiful woman, I'm probably not doing it justice. Italian, cooked wondeful meals that I never seen, the sex was awesome.
Yet, she let on that she had some sort of lesbian encounter whilst we were first seeing each other. Now, she first lined that up as, "it could be a threesome". But, when I was straight that I consider it the behaviour of someone that ins't my girlfriend, she started making out that it wans't anything.
Yeah, right. So, I checked her Facebook. And what a surprise! This girl is trialing her all over her pictures and stuff!
Give me a break
And with another girl that was screwing me around. Wont' go into the specifics, but she was already seeing one guy for sex, and therefore was filtering me for being a provider.
And I saw this guy in real life outside the supermarket one day. He is nothing compared to me .
That just shows you how women are emotionally invested - not looks invested.
Anyway, that was a very bad deal for me.
And I easily just saw other options instead. Next.
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Originally Posted by oh-eve
Why we do this: To prevent wasting time with scammers. To prevent meeting up with potentially dangerous criminals. To prevent wasting time with married people.
Oh, give me a break!
You are talking to me, now.
Very easy to see where a woman is at in her interest. Sex within three dates, or she can do one.
Don't get dragged along by anybody. That is your own fault, otherwise.
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Originally Posted by oh-eve
Too many potential risks out there that can be eliminated if you research and protect yourself. Especially if you are a woman. It can make a difference of life and death or rape and no rape!
Nope. Searching up someone is always the behaviour of someone getting far too invested.
A friend of mine Googled her ex-live-in bf (he left her suddenly in the mid-90s; he lived with her for five years). I knew the guy; he was kinda...Looney tunes, to put it mildly. Anyway, she found his mugshot online. He had had like three DUIs within a six or seven year period!
A friend of mine Googled her ex-live-in bf (he left her suddenly in the mid-90s; he lived with her for five years). I knew the guy; he was kinda...Looney tunes, to put it mildly. Anyway, she found his mugshot online. He had had like three DUIs within a six or seven year period!
Apparently "Searching up someone is always the behaviour of someone getting far too invested."
it could as well have been a mugshot for something violent.
Apparently "Searching up someone is always the behaviour of someone getting far too invested."
it could as well have been a mugshot for something violent.
Listen, maybe you check up every person that you meet.
Some of us are meeting so many different people that checking them online means something different.
Perhaps those people are on a different level than you are. Just a crazy thought!
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