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To be blunt, your fiance is abusive. This may be hard to accept, but it's the truth.
You have to think about why you feel the need to stay in an abusive relationship where your SO puts hands on you, then callously tells you about boinking and impregnating other women, especially when it's relatives.
Now, this is NOT easy, but you really do need to leave your fiance.
But overall, he has no respect for you. And it's probably lowered because you stayed after things got physical. So he just expects you to put up with all of his crap, because he figures you're not going anywhere, or planning to do anything. So that's his cue to keep doing what he's doing. And it will only get even worse. You see that with his comments becoming even more tasteless than before.
To be blunt, your fiance is abusive. This may be hard to accept, but it's the truth.
You have to think about why you feel the need to stay in an abusive relationship where your SO puts hands on you, then callously tells you about boinking and impregnating other women, especially when it's relatives.
Now, this is NOT easy, but you really do need to leave your fiance.
But overall, he has no respect for you. And it's probably lowered because you stayed after things got physical. So he just expects you to put up with all of his crap, because he figures you're not going anywhere, or planning to do anything. So that's his cue to keep doing what he's doing. And it will only get even worse. You see that with his comments becoming even more tasteless than before.
This.
He puts you down and calls you names. He makes sexually suggestive comments about your female relatives and other women. HE PHYSICALLY HURT YOU.
Leave. It is only going to get worse, like mentioned above. Who cares if he wants to sleep with your sister? That's only a drop in this whole poisonous ocean. Are you that desperate for a man?
You're so right... He does believe he can do what he wants to me and I'll never leave because he has outright said it... I told him if I had ever found out he cheated if be out and he said with a chuckle no you won't you're never going anywhere... Huh wow hearing myself say that as I type this I'm realizing how pathetic I am... I mostly stay because my girls love him a he's the only father they know... I grew up most of my life without mine and he was extremely abusive to me as my mother and my other siblings up until he left and never came back... I guess honestly all I've ever known is abuse... Wow I'm realizing how dysfunctional I am... I think it's about time I reevaluate my life as the people I'm going to have in it
You are in an abusive relationship in ALL aspects, especially emotional and verbal. I would leave this trash and go far away.
It looks like you are dependent on him though? I hope not. Coz it will be harder to leave. But I am leaning on you are unemployed and dependent on this trash of a human that's why you are still with him.
You're so right... He does believe he can do what he wants to me and I'll never leave because he has outright said it... I told him if I had ever found out he cheated if be out and he said with a chuckle no you won't you're never going anywhere... Huh wow hearing myself say that as I type this I'm realizing how pathetic I am... I mostly stay because my girls love him a he's the only father they know... I grew up most of my life without mine and he was extremely abusive to me as my mother and my other siblings up until he left and never came back... I guess honestly all I've ever known is abuse... Wow I'm realizing how dysfunctional I am... I think it's about time I reevaluate my life as the people I'm going to have in it
The part in bold is extremely concerning, because he's already making crude cracks about your sister and mom...what are you going to do when your girls grow up and he starts eyeing them as well?
Sigh. What do YOU think you should do, new poster?
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