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A lot of women do. It feels much better and semen has antidepressant, mood elevating effects on women.
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Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life
According to her non-PG13 description of events, she is not experiencing that "benefit" anyway.
That is exactly why I want to do it without the condom because it feels good to me. And because I trust him enough to know that even if I do pregnant he would stay in my life. He might not be my husband but he will play the role of a father to the kid.
So why do you allow it? I've been through an unintended pregnancy with an uncommitted partner. It is no fairy tale.
Being comfortable with a person and a compliment is completely different. For him to be comfortable with me means that idk we could be friends or something.
Being comfortable with a person and a compliment is completely different. For him to be comfortable with me means that idk we could be friends or something.
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Originally Posted by cupid_stupid
That is exactly why I want to do it without the condom because it feels good to me. And because I trust him enough to know that even if I do pregnant he would stay in my life. He might not be my husband but he will play the role of a father to the kid.
I'll be honest with you. You are ALL over the place.
So he MIGHT be a friend or something? Or he will play the "role of father" to your kid????
Sex is more than just something you do that feels good, and you seriously need to understand that if you think you're mature enough to be doing it.
You know what you HOPE he will do, but you don't really know. Until then, you need to be mature enough to use birth control
That is exactly why I want to do it without the condom because it feels good to me. And because I trust him enough to know that even if I do pregnant he would stay in my life. He might not be my husband but he will play the role of a father to the kid.
That's what plenty of women think. Until it actually happens and the father doesn't stick around. You're both too busy getting wrapped up in hedonism -where if it feels good, do it, and downplaying the consequences. Children are a huge responsibility that lasts 21 years, if you're lucky. Sometimes it'll be longer. And they are not cheap to have.
You don't know that his guy is genuinely going to stick around if you get pregnant. And it's selfish risk to take, bringing a baby into the world to be raised by an ignorant 20-year-old mom who doesn't have her life together, and hardly has any real-world experience -just because she didn't wanna use ANY birth control. And putting the baby in a potential position of having no father because his (possibly) ran off.
It's one thing to be using contraceptives -like you're supposed to but they fail. However, at least the person was trying to be responsible and doing their part.
Last edited by HappyRain; 02-05-2017 at 08:08 PM..
For goodness sake, you are both in your 20s. Get some birth control pills. Even condom is not safe, that's how my brother's last kid was conceived and the wife didn't know she was pregnant. This is after already having two kids.
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