I got to ask this again just to make sure you are really meaning what you are saying .... ARE YOU SURE you are looking for a soul mate. What does this really mean to you?
Here is why I am asking ....
I really think a lot of men might have a Genie in a Bottle type idea of what the ideal women maybe and can't get past that. Most women don't just exist to make YOUR dreams come true..... to bow to your every need. So in turn just about all women they meet can't really live up to those standards ( and hopefully are not stupid enough to even try
).
Are you expecting too much from someone? Are you writing people off too fast?
When you meet people in different stages in their life they act differently. You meet people in a different context they act differently.
Are you being too judgemental. You are okay with having one night stands... but then critique women who do saying they only want sex or decide to have sex with you. Maybe like you they want both. Maybe they are thinking the same thing about you ... ex this guy only seems like he is looking for a hook up... so I guess I can go there with him and just look for something else tomorrow.
What kind of vibes are you giving off?
Why don't you ask your family or friends to set you up with someone just to try a different way?
I got to ask this too and you don't have to answer ... are you the type of guy that wants to sleep around ... but have a his little virgin princess wife a home pregnant and having babies while you are still playing around?
You are sounding like your are expecting too much and are not willing to make an effort to really get to know anyone. You are also sounding like you are pretty superficial in terms of what you are looking for in a woman.
Are you the type of guy who does not realized he has ignored dozens of other women who are likely looking to settle down because you only notice the women in the mini skirt in the 6 inch heels?
I am reading what you are writing and sorry I am really thinking the problem is you. You are talking the talk... but are not really acting like a person who is looking for a meaningful relationship.
Are you like a woman who is only attracted to the bad boy types and trying to change them without success.
Ex are you only attracted to women who seem more interested in physical relationships and trying to change them in a housewife because it suits your agenda?
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