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Old 03-03-2017, 05:23 PM
 
Location: Richmond VA
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You are the guy. You are supposed to read the minds of those girls who are looking at you and know which one is available. They YOU approach HER! Believe me, she is waiting for you.
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Old 03-03-2017, 05:31 PM
 
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so Peter if people say that you are "very good looking" and girls are getting giddy around you.. have you considered that you might be too good looking?
yes Like maybe most ladies don't want a hubby or even boyfriend or even a date ..that is prettier than they are !
so maybe get more scrubby looking instead of whatever it is you are now doing.
and then marry the first good lady you find.. because chances are pretty boys just get more handsome as they get older.. so find a sweety now and marry her , if you are too pretty.. you might not ever find one who will take you serious , without passing out first or giggling herself to death. really most ladies won't date a man prettier than they are.

with all the giggling you told us about .. yes consider maybe they are thinking you are too pretty/ too handsome.
so think hill billy or maybe jed clampett and scruffy bearded , sweat pants.. or paint on your Jeans. look like a working class man.. whatever your doing now, change it !! and look like a couch potato maybe .... for a while and find a sweet lady and then don't let her go . because really pretty guys, most pretty guys just get prettier as they get older and then it will just get harder to find a lady who will even try to date you... well one that is worth keeping anyway.
if you have a great car, fast or cool... .. go get a second car (a ugly one that you
work in )


so there is some ideas
I'm old lady married 37 years and
Just trying to help...
You are entitled to your opinion, but I don't agree with this. I don't have a problem with a man being pretty as long as I know he isn't gay, so stay pretty while you can. It won't last forever. A lot of pretty men stop being pretty in their late 20s and up, unfortunately.
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Old 03-03-2017, 05:42 PM
 
Location: Pa
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They may think you dig men.
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Old 03-03-2017, 05:44 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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You can look like Channing Tatum and the majority of women won't ask you out. It's just how it is.
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Old 03-03-2017, 05:48 PM
 
Location: Pa
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You can look like Channing Tatum and the majority of women won't ask you out. It's just how it is.
Only if she has guts herself.
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Old 03-03-2017, 05:48 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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You are the guy. You are supposed to read the minds of those girls who are looking at you and know which one is available. They YOU approach HER! Believe me, she is waiting for you.
If a man has to do all that then she's not interested.
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Old 03-03-2017, 05:49 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Only if she has guts herself.
Which most women don't have... No offense to the women who actually ask men out.
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Old 03-03-2017, 05:57 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Which most women don't have... No offense to the women who actually ask men out.
No,many do have guts.Choosing the right guy is the hard part.
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Old 03-03-2017, 06:10 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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No,many do have guts.Choosing the right guy is the hard part.
Those women are in the high minority.
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Old 03-03-2017, 07:11 PM
 
Location: PA
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You can be the best-looking guy in the world, but if you don't have something besides that, like a sense of humor or some emotional intelligence, it is not going to matter. Sure, other people are intimidated by very attractive people, but if these girls are looking and smiling and outright telling you that they think that you are handsome, and you still don't know if they are interested, I do not know what to tell you.
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